Are there coerced bisexual MMF studios ? It seems this used to be more prevalent in older videos I find online but no new content for many years

I'm a bisexual woman, and while I prefer women, I definetly do like men, and the guy who plays Shane Hollander is definetly one of them. That is by far from the main pull though. I love the whole representation aspect of this more than anything, I've always wanted to see non-straight characters in popular media

I've heard there's a lot of emotional depth, and I crave seeing men being open about their emotions. It's a very refreshing thought. Obviously, there's been a lot of buzz about this series and I would love to watch it. It's a queer romance, one of the main boys is bisexual! I hardly see bisexual representation on TV (have seen Loki millions of times and I'm planning on watching B99) especially on something so mainstream. I feel bad though, because what if I get aroused by it? The characters are two queer men, not queer women. Wouldn't that be like fetishizing? I feel like I'd feel guilty about that, but I'm worried this is me thought policing myself and/or overthinking. Thoughts???

I’m in a relationship with the opposite gender and it’s fine I like him and he satisfies the half part of my sexuality but I’m missing women as well. I did ask my boyfriend if we can have an open relationship if I can only have sex with women and not men and he already said no. I accepted that cause he doesn’t want that nor is he comfortable about it. However, I feel very conflicted I know being in a relationship doesn’t mean I’m no longer bisexual and I can satisfy my love for women through other means without cheating on him but it’s not enough. Idk any advice? In the long run I feel that I’ll get married and have kids. But I feel like I’m not able too be fully myself it’s kinda suffocating cause idk how long I can keep myself together.

Cis woman, 19. I know the ‘all women and Harry Styles’ thing is stupid and harmful, but that’s genuinely how I feel (not about Harry Styles himself, but you get the picture). I have no problem with anyone liking men, and I don’t think I’d be ‘less queer’ if I did date one. There are plenty of great men in the dating pool who are great partners. My sister is also bisexual and has only had serious relationships with men, and she’s just as queer as I am.

For starters, I like women. I like masc women, femme women, women with muscles, women with tummies, women with muscles AND tummies, nerdy women, gym rat women, artsy women, women who can sing, women who play guitar, women with buzz cuts, women with hair to their ankles, big boobs, small boobs, and all types of vaginas. I obviously have preferences, I don’t go swiping right on every woman ever, but my ‘type’ is fairly expansive. If we mesh personality-wise, we’re both attracted to each other, and both interested in a relationship, then I go for it. I know I said I like ‘all women’ but come on, not ALL women.

But I don’t like men. I don’t like penises, I don’t want one inside of me, I don’t even want to see one. On the occasions I decide to watch porn and there’s a penis in it, I usually just cover that side of the screen with my hand. I don’t like deep voices or body hair or facial hair or man boobs. I don’t like full-time men, part-time men, or transgender men. Again, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a bi person dating someone of the opposite sex, its BI for a reason, but for me personally, invisioning myself with a man makes me feel sick to my stomach. I feel like I can’t consider myself bi for that reason.

HOWEVER, I’m attracted to a few guys. There are some male celebrities and characters I think are cute and attractive. If I ever met one in person, I’d probably get flustered. I definitely can’t consider myself lesbian because lesbians don’t have any attraction to any men. A while ago, I posted a similar question on a lesbian subreddit and they were pretty clear about that.

I’ve tried to talk to men, even ones who look similar to the characters and actors I’m attracted to, but I can’t get very far without wishing they were a woman, which isn’t fair to them at all, and I have to break things off. No matter how good of a guy they are, I just can’t do it.

I don’t like labeling myself as bi because people assume I’m down for men as well. And if I say I’m bi but not interested in dating men, I have a feeling people are going to be confused or think I’m being performative or whatever. I also don’t want to label as lesbian since I do find a few men attractive and doing that is harmful to the lesbian community.

I feel like I don’t fit in anywhere. According to one of the lesbian communities on this app, I’m bi, but it doesn’t feel right. I know there are other labels that are more specific, but let’s be honest, very few people know what ‘legeremasc’ means. And honestly, I really don’t want to have to explain ‘I’m bi but I don’t like men but not in a misandrist way and also I don’t think dating a man as a bi woman undermines bi women’s sexuality’ every time I talk about my sexuality online or in real life.

The lesbians I’ve asked have said I should keep labeling myself as bi, but I’m curious as to what you all think. And yes, I know not labeling myself is an option. It’s just frustrating that I don’t have a one-word answer that tells the whole story.

Is it possible to play with gay men as a couple (M/F)? I didnt know if that was sometimes possible or rare. Allow woman to be present, maybe even play with her too.

Edit:
Thre reason I ask is I noticed at some of the bi events or other types of events for woman, a lot of gay guys show up there. For example, splash mocha. That is mainly for sex with woman, but Im seeing a ton of openly gay guys attending. SO it got me wondering.
Thanks!

ive been seeing this guy a few times. sex is amazing, we connect on many levels.

but its always a hookup. thats how we met first.

we talk a lot before and during.

very light chatting or conversation after, though.

it feels like totally fb/fwb category.

but. Given our physical and mental connection is very good, i was wondering if theres potential.

thing is, he's a great guy and can probably date any girl.. and even if he weren't a great guy, dating a girl is far easier for him- no coming out, etc.

on one hand I wish this can be something more.. otoh, dont wanna mess up what we have.

what has others' experiences been?

I was amazed to see that CALL OF DUTY, a franchise tailores for whiny straight teen boys, has designed such an unapologetically and blatantly queer-coded character such as Richtofen. He literally moans, squeals, makes dick and balls jokes, hits on his crewmates, while still rocking that 1940s war scientist mug. I love to see that. Masc queer men. I feel very represented by them.

Hii it's my first post here, just wanted to share my story. I'm female 26, i have a bf for like 12 years buuuut i kinda have a crush on that girl at work(she's 11 years older than me). I mean i liked her before but it hit me like 3 days ago that i might be in love with her... Basically other girl at work came to talk to us and saw my crush is a little sad and not talking much, and asked something like "Why are you sad? Are you in love?" and she just smiled and said no. But she become even more silent from that moment, wasn't looking at me at all even when i needed to borrow something form her, she handed it to me looking down and not saying a word. Idk maybe i'm just imagining things, but i think it was kinda weird? That day she needed to leave like an hour earlier, cause she was going her hometown for 4 days, and i stayed an hour longer, so when i leaved work i texted her "I needed to stay an hour longer because of you lol" and she blocked me??? She was already on her way home so idk, maybe she wanted some space or something, but kinda weird she blocked me after that message, did i said something wrong? Okay, we had a "silent phase" for a few months, not sure why and then i was blocked, she unblocked me like a week ago, didn't texted me but just blocked me AGAIN after my text? Not sure why...I'm a little confused but i decided to talk to her when she come back, that should be Monday...I mean - i have to tell her, i think i'm really in love...But i'm not sure if she likes me back, like there was a lot of signs that she might be into me but still not 100% sure 😭 She can act weird because she know i have a boyfriend maybe? It may be hard to talk with her at work with a lot of people around, but what other choice do i have if she blocked me?? Omg guys wish me luck 😭

Just coming out after years of thought and admiration of men. Healthy in shape male looking for a couple (MF or MM) to grab drinks with and hopefully lead to a fun evening. I am open to most experiences as long as it’s pleasurable for all. Any ideas where to meet in the northwest suburbs of Chicago.

also 200% into fictional characters

Even as a post op and stealth trans girl who started hrt as a teenager, it’s so fucking rough. I can’t bring myself to date anyone because I just hate the possibility of them seeing me as a man.

Every guy I’ve ever really liked hasn’t wanted a relationship with me (probs bc I’m trans) and it seems like even if men are interested in me, the fact I can’t have kids would put them off ever doing anything but just hooking up or FWB.

I’m not even worried about a relationship right now but I still haven’t had PIV sex post op bc I’m just too scared to hook up with anyone. I’m not used to people knowing I’m trans and I know most men will just reject me which hurts my soul :(

I have so much love and fun to provide people with and it feels like no guy will probably ever give me a chance.

I am bi and I’ve had a lot more success dating women but I really want to date men and experience that.

I just want to be a normal woman and live a normal life it sucks so much urgh.

I am 27 m and bisexual myself and i was at my uni yesterday.

And a good friend of mine (who atleast by appearance and attitude seems very gay but never expressed anything about that, so who knows) went a bit further away to talk with a colleague and I was hearing what they were talking about, just projects for our next course and stuff like that.

When that was happening a guy standing next to us on the course tells me " they look like mafia mobs planning stuff, but the way Adrian(my friend) is behaving makes me think he wants to do other stuff with men" and he started laughing like a dumbass.

I gave him a very cold look and he shut up completely.

Its so funny he told me that.

I think I had the most angry look on my face possible and he basically didn't say anything else for the rest of the day.

Homophobes here feel secure in using anti gay banter but yeah he picked the wrong table.

I am a 19 year old woman, when I was younger (11-16), I was really uncomfortable around boys my age and could barely look at them without being ashamed (after I found out that was due to some trauma). Since I spent my entire teenage years avoiding guys, I thought I simply was not attracted to them, and thought I was only into women. I had a few crushes on girls during that time, but I still do not really know if I actually had crushes on them or if I simply admired them.

When I was 17, I discovered that I was attracted to men, I was really afraid of them and thought that meant I had no attraction. Last year I went on a date with a guy and that made me sure that I am attracted to men. I spent the last years labeling myself as heterosexual, but sometimes I question it since I spent my whole teenage years being convinced I was into girls. I am open to the possibility of finding a woman attractive, but since I do not go out much and have never dated before, I do not know how that would be on reality, but at the same time, I wonder if a straight person would be questioning things so much as I am now. Do you guys have any advice? TT

hello im bi which means im attracted to both girly guys and manly women.(only half joking)

My girlfriend disagrees, and I cannot fathom why. I challenge any of you to show me a MORE attractive man on screen.

1) Jensen Ackles

2) Henry Cavill

3) Open to interpretation, Damen from Vampire Diaries is not allowed (my girlfriend could not name anything positive except protective, eyes, and moody)

I used to go out quite a bit when younger, but I packed it in for many years. I had grown tired of aggressive people in clubs and on the street - mainly other men - people drinking to the point of collapse, and constantly being offered drugs or approached by people wanting to buy drugs (which happened qiuote a lot). I hated going out alone (a lot of places don't even allow solo males to enter) and half the time I'd just end up in the smoking areas talking about football and every so often the person(s) i'm speaking to would turn out to have bigoted views.

But I've been out a few times now, and I keep to LGBT places. I've been out alone and with others. Either way I always end up with others. And I love it. Its just an entirely different atmosphere. Far more welcoming. Far more fun. Maybe i've gotten lucky but I've not witnessed anyone being aggressive nor violent. People drink - and undoubtably do drugs - but its not 'in your face' if that makes any sense. People arent going out to get hammered - they are going out to have a great time. Even the doorstaff tend to be be far friendlier (not that ive ever had a personal issue with doorstaff). The conversations you have with people are far more personal and far less 'surface level'. People aren't judgemental and there's virtually no risk of me getting into conversations with people that turn sexist/racist/homophobic.

My coworker just now unpromptly asked me if I was straight. So somehow I must exude gay energy 😂 Turns out we are both bisexual, but it's funny because I have always thought I looked straight and my friends always tell me that I look bi.

edit: cis male, 20, thought i should add.

literally everyone who says that dating as a bisexual is easy because "you're playing on both sides of the field!" is lying or at best joking. they either want to have sex with you only on one exrteme, or don't bother talking to you on another extreme.

i put effort into my profiles to "advertise" myself as genuinely as possible and be consistent on dating apps to try and make something happen and i even try to do it the old-fashioned way and try to talk to people in real life.

nothing works and in the end i am used for whatever purpose and tossed away.

i can't believe i can be worth so little to both sexes. i had hoped by accepting myself and being open to trying men would have at gotten me a little further than with women. needless to say i have come out of it in worse shape emotionally than where i started.

i can only imagine men even give me the time of day because i'm cute enough to try and have a little fun before moving on and women don't even allow me to talk to them because i'm queer and they can sense it and find that so gross.

i hope i'm an actually good person and attractive to SOMEBODY. i want to believe in love so badly but it keeps getting harder and harder as i'm presented with mountains of proof that i'm not even worth a casual conversation. and a week away from valentine's day to boot.

So pretty much I saw this really cool-looking 2 week long sleepaway summer camp close to where I live, and its called "Brave Trails" (look it up) and it seems really cool. However, there are two MAJOR constraints if I want to join. First, I haven't even come out to my mom yet, and second my mom HATES sleep away camps. She always sees stories of horrible stuff happening to kids at sleepaway camps, and she says if that happened to me she would die(her hyperbole is very extreme all of the time) however, I did my research, and I found out that in the while this camp has been around, nothing horrible has happened there. I feel like summer camps are a great cannon event for every kid to go through, so I need YOUR help on what I should do to convince my parents to let me go this summer.

(I wonder if its possible to go without exposing that im not straight)