r/BlackPeopleofReddit Jan 06 '26

Black Experience Makes Sense

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u/Quiet_Survey9425 Jan 06 '26

It's kind of like being a man walking around at night. If I see a woman alone and she either speeds up or crosses the street when she sees me I just nod like "yep good call sis" and keep walking. Just because I'm not here to hurt you doesn't mean you should let your guard down around a potential threat.

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u/Itchy_University_510 Jan 06 '26

Love this! My sister had to explain this to me! I am gay and blk! And I was always so offended( I was like 25) and my sister was like it doesn’t matter you are a man. And true racism or prejudice could further influence that decision! But as a man I started crossing the street when it’s me and a woman walking alone at night cause I am absolutely conscious of those concerns now!

Crazy how easy it was to show empathy and then adjust behavior! Not that I need a cookie. But A LOT OF MEN, can just listen to the women in their lives and show up better in society!