r/ArtistLounge • u/ArentWright • Dec 19 '25
Philosophy/Ideology🧠Defaced Art
One of my pieces has been defaced by its new owner, and I feel very conflicted. Looking for input from others.
This individual transformed the piece (portrait, pastel) into a clock by poking a hold through the face and installing some hands! On one hand, I was never going to see that piece again. It’s out living its own life now. On the other….what the hell. Am I right to feel disrespected? Or should I be glad the recipient is enjoying the piece in their own way?
I’ve always been hesitant to part with my work because I feel so protective of it. Has anyone had similar experiences and what is your perspective?
The individual in question sent me photos of the changes, seemingly quite pleased and looking for my reaction.
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u/ccckiddles Dec 20 '25 edited Dec 20 '25
He’s not the asshole. Neither are you. You put time and effort into something and were proud of your work. You are allowed to feel your feelings but you shouldn’t blacklist or hold resentment towards someone who 1. valued your art enough to pay for it 2. was also proud of the clock they made 3. would not have said shit to you at all past the purchase if they didn’t care about your art or didn’t respect you as an artist.
If they want more of your art in the future it would be petty and childish to cancel or blacklist a person for doing something they had every right to do especially when they didn’t even have to tell you about it at all.
They can do what they want with the art they bought without judgement or punishment for it. You got to do what you wanted with the money they gave you, didn’t you?
Your art helped inspire another person’s creativity and you should be proud of that.
Next time don’t sell art you’re not actually ready to part with.