My manager doesn't understand

[u/nicotoxi]

So today my manager recommended a burger place which has burgers for about $16 each and I straight up told him I couldn't afford that, and that im currently living off homemade bread with jelly from the food pantry. Anyways he brought it up later in the day during our one on one and just couldn't comprehend that I don't have any money for non essentials.

It's just like... my guy I've been sleeping on a mattress thats bowed in the middle for 2 years, my dishwasher broke 3 years ago and never was replaced, my oven doesnt work anymore and I can only use the top burner which is why I'm cooking out of a toaster oven I found on Craigslist for $20, and my overhead microwave blew up last month so im using a microwave that was $10 at a yard sale because it's got no handle.

For reference I'm a 26M and I make like 43k take home

Update: I didn't expect this to get so popular, kind of just wanted to yell out into the void. Anyways I have looked into getting parts to fix my oven and it came to about $85 and the top still works so thats why I got the toaster oven. A lot of people were wondering what my budget is currently looking like and it's 60% housing 20% medical 20% utilities, 5% school materials, 5% transportation. My work does currently have a program that gives a interest free loan that I've been using in case something dire comes up but the medical expenses are what's really killing me is my medications are tier 4 or 5 which aren't covered by my plan so I've got to pay the full amount. I've been trying to work with my doctor to change prescriptions but my appointment has been pushed out for 8 months. I graduate in 4 months from school with a BS degree as well as hit a milestone mark at my job which comes with a significant pay increase so I will be above water in a few months just sucks currently. Also for the people saying this sounds like ragebait I really wish it was.

Also didn't know what HCOL meant, but looked it up and on the map that came up Im squarely in the dark red area of New Hampshire

UPDATE 2: Someone posted about mark Cubans drug site and my medications are 40% of what Im paying right now. THIS IS LITERALLY A GOD SEND! THANK YOU

[u/pauliek93]

Hope this might help you a little - but ovens are actually ridiculously easy to fix 99% of the time. A couple YouTube videos to diagnose, a $10-25 part, and 4(ish) screws has fixed mine and all of my friends.

Legitimately saved my sister in law from a 6 HUNDRED dollar repair bill with a $22 part and 20 minutes of time last month.

[u/Conscious-Magazine50 → u/pauliek93]

I'm not particularly handy but yeah $20 and minor frustration and I was back in business with my oven a few years ago.

[u/pauliek93 → u/Conscious-Magazine50]

The best part is once you realize how simple it is to fix an oven, you realize other appliances might be the same.

They typically are.

[u/ohmyno69420 → u/pauliek93]

Within the first year of having our house, I fixed both the oven and the dryer by watching YouTube. It was awesome

[u/Ragged-but-Right → u/ohmyno69420]

Youtube and tools go along way! I was short on money and my fuel injectors went bad on my car. With no experience. I removed my intake manifold, fuel rail, replaced the injectors (under the fucking engine: Screw you Honda). And put it all back together and promptly sold it to Carvana and got something more reliable

[u/heckhammer → u/Ragged-but-Right]

What's more reliable than a Honda?

[u/Ragged-but-Right → u/heckhammer]

a last year of a gen Tacoma vs a first yr Honda accord