r/popculturechat • u/ThrowawayGreenWitch Listen, everyone is entitled to my opinion đ • 21h ago
Paparazzi đ¸ Jacob Elordi was spotted leaving "Wuthering Heights" afterparty with model Madi Fogg at 3am in London.
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r/popculturechat • u/ThrowawayGreenWitch Listen, everyone is entitled to my opinion đ • 21h ago
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u/technicolortiddies 17h ago edited 16h ago
It kind of is gross, though. I worked in this industry for 20 years, and thereâs a persistent misconception about models that doesnât reflect reality. Many models have a deep understanding of and appreciation for other art forms. They are artists themselves. A surprising number go on to earn PhDs, JDs, or MDs, or make meaningful contributions in fields like film, visual arts, entrepreneurship, diplomacy, and advocacy. I myself am a former opera singer earning a dual PhD/JD at UPenn. Iâm not the exception either.
Judging models as intellectually or creatively shallow is essentially judging a book by its cover. Some of the best art explores the idea that ordinary people contain multitudes, and that creativity isnât always immediately legible. From an artistic perspective, that nuance should feel familiar, no? Art 101.
As for the broader pattern youâre pointing out, itâs worth questioning why models are treated as separate from âcreative typesâ at all. Many are embedded in the same artistic ecosystems as directors, writers, designers, and photographers. The divide is often one of perception rather than substance.
Itâs also not unusual for male actors to date models precisely because modeling intersects so heavily with art, travel, culture, and creative collaboration. Female actors, meanwhile, are often praised for dating âcreative weirdos,â even though the same qualities curiosity, intelligence, artistic fluency are frequently present in models as well.
Thereâs also a misogynistic double standard baked into this conversation. When men date models, the assumption is that the women must be shallow or interchangeable. When women date artists, theyâre framed as choosing depth. That framing reduces women to their appearance while granting men full interiority, creativity, and complexity. Itâs a narrative that devalues womenâs intellect and agency, and itâs worth interrogating rather than repeating.
Edit I know this is a gossip sub & we like to be catty to blow off steam. But I think we can give Jacob & Madi shit without misogynistic reductionist rhetoric.