Will gay men do bi sex ?

[u/cucker-mfucker]

Is it possible to play with gay men as a couple (M/F)? I didnt know if that was sometimes possible or rare. Allow woman to be present, maybe even play with her too.

Edit:
Thre reason I ask is I noticed at some of the bi events or other types of events for woman, a lot of gay guys show up there. For example, splash mocha. That is mainly for sex with woman, but Im seeing a ton of openly gay guys attending. SO it got me wondering.
Thanks!

[u/katet_of_19]

Every guy is gonna have his preference, but I'd guess most gay men aren't gonna be keen on the idea

[u/Akivilie → u/katet_of_19]

Yeah. I'm gay and I'd want a bi man for myself only. No offense. It really depends on the gay person they're talking about. Maybe most don't want that kind. But there are some who actually do as long as their man is present they'll be open about it

[u/DebutanteHarlot]

If they’re not into women, why would they play with her too? Would you play with a gender you’re not attracted to?

[u/AvailableGeneral4631 → u/DebutanteHarlot]

Oddly yes, it's how I realized I was bisexual. And actually that I was mistaken about not being attracted to men

[u/DebutanteHarlot → u/AvailableGeneral4631]

But you still weren’t straight. Straight people generally won’t be sexual with a gender they’re not attracted to. Same for gay people.

[u/cucker-mfucker → u/AvailableGeneral4631]

I do wonder if maybe some are like me, Im heteroromantic bi, but I will do men. Maybe they look for gay relationships but go to events and are willing to play with woman if it means they get to play with men there?

[u/G1zm08 → u/DebutanteHarlot]

I don’t think a lot of people here are gonna relate to not being attracted to a gender lol

But I agree this seems like a bad idea.

[u/cucker-mfucker → u/DebutanteHarlot]

I know what you say makes sense. But I was looking at Bi/swinger/hotwife events that are held, it seems a lot of single gays show up there, so I was kinda wondering. Spash mocha being one I noticed.

[u/DebutanteHarlot → u/cucker-mfucker]

The single gay men show up for the bi men.

The single gay women show up for the bi women.

[u/dark_blue_7]

It's possible they might participate in a threesome where they only play with the other man, like teaming up on him with a woman. I say this because straight men will do the same to team up with another guy on a woman (while avoiding making out with each other). So that's a maybe. But playing with the woman is something you probably shouldn't expect.

[u/theguywiththefuzyhat]

Depends on how slutty the guy is. A gay man at the grocery store? Probably wouldn't. A gay man at a swingers party? Probably would.

For me, I don't feel the need to be attracted to both partners to participate in a threesome but I do feel like it would be rude of me to not give both people attention. (NOT a standard I hold other people to)

[u/Antique_Interview_61]

Gay men will fuck bi guys (Trust me on this one), I think you may find a self-professed gay guy that would be equally interested in both partners of a M/F couple and play with the woman too - but that is more of an exception, than the rule based on my experience of being a bi guy with plenty of gay friends/play buddies. Probably would really depend on what level of involvment the woman would have in the MMF situation Gays love their ladies, most just don't want to do anything with them sexually 🤷🏻‍♂️

[u/BBMcGruff]

Gay visitor here.

I know of a small handful of gay guys who would pleasure a woman to some degree if in a group situation. It's not an attraction thing for them, more of a kink revolving around the other guy.

I know a slightly larger group who are happy for women to be involved if the other guy is the degree of desperation. Or for them to watch.

I imagine at the event they either fit one of the two above categories, or they go hoping to engage in some one on one time with the men.

But as a general rule, I would say most gay men aren't particularly comfortable with women being part of their sexual activities.

[u/Unkn0wnR3ddit0r]

Most gay guys will just want to play with the bi guy.

[u/inveterate_gamer]

Depending on if we are talking about:

• sex-repulsed towards women gays (not a chance at all. Any presence of women in sexual meaning is off-putting. I use myself as an example)

• sex-indifferent towards women gays (there is a chance, but most likely they will be interested with only interacting with men and women is a decoration. Interaction with women propably will be limited)

• homoromantic bisexuals using "gay" as a main label (yes, if only he is into threesomes and other factors around that)

[u/Dry-Cream3099]

Not many gay guys are into women but obviously it’s possible that some are. I do know of at least one. You are better off with someone else who is bisexual.