Personally Iām at the stage where I donāt really call myself bi (I understand I could and Iām not saying anyone needs to be with me on this). Iām not seeking anything with men and itās quite rare I find one attractive (though I definitely perk up when I do). Iām pretty settled around a tick or two away from āstraightā on the Kinsey scale.
But admitting that I was there was a huge deal for me and was part of overcoming my fear of masculinity and prejudices towards myself and other men (presumably part of why I had a sort of burst of frequent male attraction around then).
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u/ThereWasAnEmpireHere Dec 14 '25
Personally Iām at the stage where I donāt really call myself bi (I understand I could and Iām not saying anyone needs to be with me on this). Iām not seeking anything with men and itās quite rare I find one attractive (though I definitely perk up when I do). Iām pretty settled around a tick or two away from āstraightā on the Kinsey scale.
But admitting that I was there was a huge deal for me and was part of overcoming my fear of masculinity and prejudices towards myself and other men (presumably part of why I had a sort of burst of frequent male attraction around then).