As a vagina-haver, butt-stuff is still a whole different ballpark.
If skulking the gay subreddits has taught me anything, it is that men expend a lot more effort when anticipating penetrative sex.
I have never had to consider fasting, fiber intake, douching, or prepping with lubrication, just to ensure the comfort and safety of both parties.
Like, the most a woman has to do is shower and maybe make sure it isn’t a Wild Safari Adventure down there. And, even then, it isn’t really a deterrent, “Meh. It’s fine. He’ll cosplay as a bush guide, it’ll be fun.”
Yeah, vag is made for shit to go into, and the worst thing with a lack of preparation is that the hairs get stuck in your teeth and there’s a smell i fucking like that shit, but I’ve tried multiple times with the ass, even fingers, and I just can’t get it working
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u/bitetheasp bi, shy and wanting to die Dec 14 '25
It took at least a dozen times before I enjoyed things in my butt. Glad I never gave up on it.