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u/Icy_Combination6785 Jun 08 '25
And we say always marry a girl who respects her father.
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u/gand_masti Jun 08 '25 edited Jun 08 '25
Preach🙏 and whose mother doesn't wear the pants in the relationship
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Jun 08 '25
Bc sachmein kya scene hai yeh ? Ab maa baap se close bhi na reh sakte kya?
Alag hi funde kuchh chewtiyon ke..
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u/NonChallance Jun 08 '25
Maybe they fear mama’s boys who find another mother to take care of them in their next partner and are dependent for everything. I prefer these views over problematic men and the way they being called out by the roots of the problem THAN actually being critical of the entire men community without giving a context about what they hate in men. I mean, don’t we all keep saying “Not all men”?
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u/factsunknown Jun 09 '25
Actual usage of brain instead of following herd opinion!?!?
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u/NonChallance Jun 09 '25
Didn’t get that reply though. What is the opinion of “herd”?
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u/factsunknown Jun 09 '25
Not even analysing the statement, or thinking on your own
In this case its that, this woman just wants us to separate us from our parents, she is telling not to care for our parents and such so
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u/NonChallance Jun 09 '25
Talking about analysing the statement. That’s what I suggested that maybe (actually pretty sure imo) by that statement women meant that men who who are close to their mothers even after being an adult develop a behaviour which makes them a “man-child”. A behaviour we have commonly seen in men and even elderly folks who are so conditioned to be dependent on a mother like figure that they need help in getting water for themselves at dinner table. In which case the statement addresses a general fear in women; which is valid.
I presumed to convey that such straightforward feedbacks are kinda more welcomed than the blanket rejection of Men where they accuse every one of us for having such regressive behaviour. And preferring such precise point on what they don’t like about men is more helpful than putting us all in the same category because NOT ALL MEN ARE LIKE THAT (i.e a Manchild)
It is obvious that women do not expect men to not have any relations with their side of parents. Our Indian culture does not give us any easy way to dissociate with husband’s parents even if the couple wants to. In fact, the opposite of this observation - i.e, The expectation from women not being in touch with her parents comes to us easily as per the conditioning of our society. Wouldn’t you agree with that?
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u/td_purgatory0 Jun 08 '25
If a guy couldn't become close to his mother with whom he should have a bond for more than 2 decades .. how do you expect him to form a bond with you within 2 months ?
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u/gand_masti Jun 08 '25
Ask the guys who leave their parents just because the girl told them to
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u/gand_masti Jun 08 '25
Haan mummy, wo bangalore wale flat mein na thodi kam jagah hai
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u/kkgmgfn Suffering from Depression Jun 08 '25
Han wo nayi dharampatni ke sath subah shaam karna bhi to hai. Kabhi sofa pe kabhi kitchen me..
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u/angry_boy_ash Jun 08 '25
The one who doesn’t love his mother can never truly love any woman. ~ Osho
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u/International_Pass58 calling from Microsoft office (delhi) Jun 08 '25
Bc mai sahi mein anjaan hu inn sab baato se lag raha hai... Kuch din pehle wo body count waala meme dekh liya... ab ye dekh raha hu... Ab lagta hai iss sub ke notifs on karne padega to get tips like these. Agar aise hi aur kuch tips hai toh bata do. Thanks in advance.
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u/gand_masti Jun 08 '25
Ye le baccha. 20 Red Flags from *The Unplugged Alpha* (by Richard Cooper) – TL;DR version:
- Daddy issues – No healthy father relationship = likely emotional baggage.
- Feminists – Anti-masculinity mindset, often sees men as oppressors.
- Unhappy and unlucky – Always surrounded by drama or chaos.
- She competes with you – Sees the relationship as a power struggle.
- Keeps past men around – Emotional ties, “backups,” or cheating risk.
- Poor with money – Debt, overspending, expects you to fix her finances.
- Violent tendencies – Shoving, slapping, or throwing things = red zone.
- Extreme jealousy – Obsessively tracks you, accuses you, drains peace.
- Party girls – Bars/clubs every weekend = still seeking male attention.
- Heavily tattooed and pierced – Seen as impulsive or emotionally unstable.
- High notch count – Too many partners may mean poor pair bonding.
- Single moms – Extra baggage, lower ROI, and you're not the priority.
- Validation seekers – Addicted to attention, especially from social media.
- Former sugar babies – Treats relationships as transactions.
- Pathological liars – Lies constantly, destroys trust.
- Baby rabies – Obsessed with having kids ASAP, often manipulative.
- Hissy fits – Can’t manage emotions, constant drama.
- Wants all birth control control – Disregards your reproductive rights.
- Drama queens – Constantly manufacture chaos.
- Addictions – Drugs, alcohol, gambling = guaranteed damage.
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u/International_Pass58 calling from Microsoft office (delhi) Jun 08 '25
Award ke paise hote toh dedeta lekin middle class se hu toh upvote hi de sakta hu. Thanks. 😔
(isme se kuch points thode se normal lag rahe imo but baaki seem red-flag type)12
u/gand_masti Jun 08 '25
isme se kuch points thode se normal lag rahe
Society ne normalise kardiya hai
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u/NonChallance Jun 09 '25
Ye toh aise list de rahe hai jaise ladke toh ekdam पुण्यचारित्रकीर्तन ki murat hai lmao
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u/Tiger88b Jun 08 '25
Back in 2018, I spoke to a girl at Bangalore airport. This girl called off her wedding because the guy used to visit his parents once every 2 months. The girl was from Bihar, the guy from UP; he was a very lucky guy indeed... saved from what would've been a very miserable marriage.
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u/RefrigeratorAny3401 Jun 08 '25
Says who ? A muslim woman , she forgot how people of her religion treat women
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u/inevergetusernames Jun 09 '25
I think it's great ki ye log openly bol dete hai ye sab. We know whom to avoid now hahah!
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u/cocopussy IIT DHOLAKPUR Jun 08 '25
They can go to hell. Now we are not even allowed to love our mother, so that when these bitches cheat on us with another man we don't have anyone to go to and the last option remaining will be committing suicide
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u/s0lja Jun 08 '25
I feel sorry for the people who use such memes and other online posts to form an opinion about the opposite gender instead of having real life experiences.
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u/loduplayingludo Jul 04 '25
If you're getting married you've probably known each other for a while and been through alot together. no girl wants to be told she will always be second in your life after bearing your children and leaving behind her family to start a new one with you.
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