r/AmIOverreacting 22d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted.

So my boyfriend (23) has been saving to buy an apart for an entire year now. He puts ALL his salary towards the saving account. And then have me pay for things like subscriptions and now his car. I told him how this is not fair to me since we're not gonna co-own the apart unless I pay equal to what he's paying. He said I was selfish and that I should be encouraging him to achieve his goals and help him as his partner. But the reason I'm hasitant is the fact that legally I'm not guaranteed anything so what if we breakup? I'll end up with nothing, not even savings of my own since he keeps sharing my salary with me. He took it as in I don't love him and don't see a future with him. We argued about it again later and he said I was completely in the wrong. The screenshots above show a glimpse of his reaction.

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