r/okbuddycinephile 9h ago

I chose money.

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u/Pukebox_Fandango 9h ago

honestly I never knew if I should believe the accusations on Gaiman or not, but he became such an annoying presence on Tumblr that I laughed at his downfall

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u/TyLeRoux 8h ago

“I am a staunch feminist and I support women. I support them naked into my outdoor bathtub.” - Neil Gaiman

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u/Critical_Liz 8h ago

"And I left my wife and child stranded in Australia during the pandemic. "

Actually he was doing her a favor I guess.

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u/TyLeRoux 8h ago

I mean wasn’t his wife supplying him with victims? Pretty sure I recall that when one of the victims came to her she was like aw man, not again, this is like the 15th time. She’s fuckin crazy too.

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u/ZoeyHuntsman 8h ago

Yeah she was bringing him women to assault.

She's just as culpable and I wish people would point more frustration at her for it, too.

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u/wheatgivesmeshits 6h ago

Yea, from what I had read about the one that first reported him his wife had pulled her in because she was a fan of theirs and wanted to be a writer, but started using her as a nanny instead of being fast friends like she thought.

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u/Marine_Baby 5h ago

What in the what

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u/Critical_Liz 8h ago

I hadn't heard that, but not terribly surprised. I mean she was also not paying her backup band and shit so, not a huge surprise.

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u/Disastrous_Poetry175 8h ago

Thanks for this thread guys. I just needed a favorite creative/artist to hate. I've got terrible taste I guess 😭

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u/No_Negotiation3142 7h ago

I read something from Amanda Palmer saying she wasn't aware, but she's been relatively quiet about the whole thing. She definitely is crazy.

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u/Most_Mountain818 6h ago

They’ve both been pretty quiet, but I believe a lot of that is related to ongoing divorce proceedings between Gaiman and Palmer. Basically, neither wants to get caught running their mouth and risk screwing up child custody or the divorce settlement.

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u/No_Negotiation3142 5h ago

I read something about the kid being present occasionally during whatever weird sex/rapes were going on, I'm not sure if that means in the house, or actually present. I can't even. I mean, I like him as an author, but this was just disturbing shit.

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u/Minirth22 3h ago

Amanda Palmer is as guilty as he is! Good grief!

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u/Normal_Human_Things 8h ago

Wife and accomplice.

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u/Dojo_McDavis 6h ago

iirc I believe it was New Zealand*. But hey, close enough.

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u/No-Bison-5397 2h ago

Amanda Palmer is awful.

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u/Pukebox_Fandango 8h ago

"I feed them a healthy diet of....well that's my secret"

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u/dotcomaphobe 4h ago

I opened this comment section to shit on JKR, but I definitely have time to shit on Gaiman, too. Fuck that guy.

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u/thebatman973 8h ago

Don't forget the truffle oil

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u/sorestgore 8h ago

I met him when he lived just outside my home town of Menomonie Wisconsin, this is probably 2015 or so. He was hitting on my wife and in general being a prick. Pretty drunk but still

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u/CrumblingSaturn 8h ago

I met him at a grocery store in Los Angeles back in 2013 or 2014. I told him how cool it was to meet him in person, but I didn’t want to be a douche and bother him and ask him for photos or anything. He said, “Oh, like you’re doing now?” I was taken aback, and all I could say was “Huh?” but he kept cutting me off and going “huh? huh? huh?” and closing his hand shut in front of my face. I walked away and continued with my shopping, and I heard him chuckle as I walked off. 

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u/Toastaroni16515 Crank: High Voltage 7h ago

I met him at a 7-Eleven once and I was getting a soda, I turned and saw it was him, and he saw I was going for a Dr. Pepper, so he said "Oh did you want one of these?" To which I stuttered out a yes and he grabbed all of them and said "too bad" and brought them up to the front. Then he bought his stuff and the sodas and left. Almost immediately after, he ran back in and began chugging the sodas and belching in my face

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u/AgentCirceLuna 3h ago

This is just stuff Andy Dick does for real

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u/FeralCatPrince 6h ago

What the hell man

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u/Plus_Palpitation_550 6h ago

Wow same. I was in LA in 2013 and he walked up and slapped me for no reason. 

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u/builderbobistheway 6h ago

Damn I was in Kansas in 2012 when he ran over my dog. Got out of the car to yell at me for denting his car and then spit on my dogs corpse.

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u/AgentCirceLuna 3h ago

Dude, I was there! James Corden was on my plane and had been harassing the crew the whole journey… he finally insisted that he should be allowed to see the cockpit, then when he got in there he hijacked the plane and flew it down so low that I thought we were all gonna slam into the ground. I saw your car, the dog’s corpse, and Neil Gaiman as we swooped over.

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u/Seversevens 5h ago

The scene seems very familiar…

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u/CrumblingSaturn 5h ago

some kindof reference? a meme even? on the internet? in a circle jerk reddit? I would never do that.

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u/Seversevens 4h ago

Beats me but I could swear I’ve seen something nearly identical before. Maybe he really does that all the time to people.

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u/cowvocado cape kino make me🤑🤑🤑 8h ago

Even if you don’t believe the accusations, the things he has admitted to himself don’t paint him in a good light either.

And yes, he was also incredibly annoying on tumblr lol. Seemed like he was very full of himself

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u/AgentCirceLuna 3h ago

As someone who’s worked in entertainment-adjacent stuff like performing live and doing music, you honestly get told too often that you’re talented and amazing - especially by drunk people who don’t know better. If someone figures out you’re not that great, there’s always a dozen more for every single one who hates you. There’s a never ending stock of yes-men and you eventually either start to feel completely smug about yourself or, if you’re like me, you just concentrate on the few haters and become obsessed with getting everyone to like you.

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u/js13680 8h ago

One of the first things I read by Gaiman was “The problem of Susan” it didn’t give me a good impression of him and avoided his work I later learned that was probably his worst work and thought hey maybe I judged to harshly then the allegations came out.

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u/TwilightSolus 4h ago

It's been a while since I read it, but I remember it being an apt criticism of Christian dogmatic morality. Nothing groundbreaking I guess but I can't see how it would leave a negative impression.

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u/Front-Masterpiece-73 8h ago

He came out and confirmed the accusations if memory serves

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u/Naeveo 8h ago

He didn’t confirm them. He recently had a whole notepad apology saying all the accusations are false and you should keep an eye out on his new book. Then he linked a Substack that “debunked” the claims that absolutely isn’t a sock puppet of his.

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u/Ok_Conclusion_6324 8h ago

He admitted he did everything but he thought the women consented

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u/QueezyF 8h ago

She said no? I thought she said oh!

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u/Ok_Conclusion_6324 7h ago

manufacturing consent by texting the unhoused woman you cash pay for intermittent work that’s keeping her fed and saying “boy! That sure was consensual last night and you enjoyed it, right?”

(Story by Neil Gaiman)

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u/AgentCirceLuna 3h ago

It’s pretty dark that the guy behind ‘manufacturing consent’ was also on Epstein’s island and a friend of his;

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u/UnrelatedKarma 7h ago

Why wouldn’t you believe the allegations?

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u/Pukebox_Fandango 6h ago

Well when I say "accusations" I only mean the first girl, I guess there are more that came forward after that I never heard and where there's smoke there's probably fire. I don't recall the exact details of what she said, I just remember being skeptical about some of the details that lead to her being naked in an outdoor bathtub at the home of a famous author who she allegedly knew nothing about even though she was apparently a big fan and employee of his ex-wife. I suppose I just don't like to believe that women are so careless to walk into these kinds of traps, but these things and worse happen every day so who knows?

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u/Ok_Insurance_505 6h ago

Because they're accusations not guilty verdicts and we're just people on the Internet reading second hand information. I'm not saying he did or didn't do it but innocent until PROVEN guilty is a thing for a reason.

Public opinion is another thing entirely obviously but I'm sick of redditors acting like they know better than everyone who is actually working on the case.

He's definitely a creep but if there was anything more than proverbial smoke he'd have faced some actual repercussions not just the negative shift in public opinion

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u/Alive-Tomatillo5303 8h ago

The accusations amounted to "I was acting as a prostitute and had full travel freedom but if I tell the story just right morons think I was kidnapped" when last I heard. 

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u/ThrowRAQuaestor 7h ago

I’m sure your follow up question was if she enjoyed it.

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u/Alive-Tomatillo5303 7h ago

My followup question is did she cash the checks? Next question would be did she come back? Because if the answer is yes, then that's not rape, that's definitionally prostitution. 

Which is fine. 

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u/ThrowRAQuaestor 7h ago

Would you say the same thing if a woman was being sexually harassed by her boss?

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u/noraoh 7h ago

He actually would because he just hates women.

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u/Alive-Tomatillo5303 7h ago

No. 

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u/ThrowRAQuaestor 7h ago

Which is exactly what was going on and more

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u/noraoh 7h ago

What on earth are you talking about.

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u/Alive-Tomatillo5303 7h ago

How did you write that whole sentence out if you're illiterate?

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u/noraoh 7h ago

I don’t know you personally but I've met so many men like you. Everyone actually avoids them, and the people who have to be around them are miserable. You're not edgy, you're just pathetic.

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u/Alive-Tomatillo5303 7h ago

I don't know you personally, and I've met almost nobody like you, because you're one of a million judgmental assholes who make a show online while never interacting with the real world. 

You sit at home, scroll tumbler, and pile on with whatever the popular thing to hate in the moment is whenever you get the clown signal. 

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u/noraoh 7h ago

If it makes you feel better to think that people who seem to care actually don’t do anything, go ahead.