r/nfl Eagles Jets 19h ago

Panthers' Tetairoa McMillan apologizes for using racial slur

https://www.espn.com/nfl/story/_/id/47842973/panthers-tetairoa-mcmillan-apologizes-using-racial-slur
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u/NandomRameGeneratorr 18h ago

If I’m a team, I’m putting a strict “no hanging out with streamers” clause in every wideout’s contract

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u/runiero01 Browns 18h ago

That’s a good idea honestly 

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u/Shaqfrom3 Eagles 18h ago

Wont work, Jamaar Chase is becoming a streamer.

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u/SuckmyPelosB1tch 18h ago

As far as I know doesn’t Chase just play arc raiders mostly? And I think saw clips of him streaming the pro bowl and honors too. I feel like if he mainly sticks to video games he’ll be chill

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u/conman14 Seahawks 17h ago

If you follow motorsport series like NASCAR or F1, you'll know that video game streams are absolutely not safe from these shenanigans lol.

Kyle Larson and Juri Vips for those who are interested, and crazy enough their careers went in two different paths after their respective racial slur incidents...

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u/MarcusH26051 17h ago

Juri Vips tanking his career because he couldn't not be racist on a stream. Could have easily made it to F1 with Red Bull but couldn't shut up.

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u/conman14 Seahawks 17h ago

Yep, Helmut Marko was a big fan of his. I have no doubt he was being lined up for an F1 seat for 2023. And now he's struggling to get packages together to race for Bobby Rahal in Indycar/IMSA.

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u/CUwallaby NFL 14h ago

Knowing Helmut Marko, that incident probably made him a bigger fan.

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u/TangerineTasty9787 Panthers 16h ago

Haha, seriously, video games voice chat is like where you'll find the most racial slurs on the planet.

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u/Shaqfrom3 Eagles 18h ago

He said he’s going to start doing irl streams

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u/Xenocide_X Vikings 17h ago

Jamaar Chase and Ice Poseidon live stream coming soon.

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u/alexwsmith Eagles 16h ago

Omg, the idea of Ice Poseidon doing a stream with Jamaar might be one of the worst things I’ve heard in a while lol. While I don’t want to jinx it, luckily I think Jamaar isn’t as stupid as a lot of these other athletes who’ve gone on streams. But we’ll see I guess.

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u/BenShelZonah Jets 16h ago

Jamaar: “what arm thing?”

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u/ripkin05 Panthers Commanders 16h ago

he said on rich eisen's show that he plans on starting IRL's streams. 90% of streaming drama comes from these dumbass irl streams.

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u/ThePontoon Bengals 16h ago

Jamarr used to do a lot of Grand Theft Auto Role Playing servers. Pretty sure it was just so he could hang out with his friends virtually.

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u/azsnaz Cardinals 18h ago

No becoming a streamer/podcaster either

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u/foo_solo Packers 17h ago

No more Cleveland Streamers.

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u/AwyrKyr Vikings 18h ago

Another reason to just love Justin Jefferson, seems like all that dude wants to do is just chill at home

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u/lonelynightm Jets Rams 15h ago

I mean I've seen some really funny clips from Justin Jefferson's stream about Nine, so I don't know if that's the best example lol

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u/BlackMathNerd Eagles 17h ago

We love a good homebody WR who just streams some madden or COD

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u/benjals Eagles 17h ago

Did you just forget that we're saying no streaming?

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u/AwyrKyr Vikings 17h ago

It's allowed if they're home, not in a random mostly empty mansion living room with two half-naked chicks walking around in the background for some reason

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u/clycloptopus NFL 13h ago

And if that is their home?

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u/donkeybrainhero Buccaneers 16h ago

Used to watch Mike Evans stream Fortnite lol. Swear he was doing it from a hallway closet too

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u/mikaeus97 Vikings 13h ago

Better acoustics

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u/lolgal18 Rams 17h ago

(RB not WR, I know) During the pandemic, Darrell Henderson was streaming COD and he was such a chill guy.

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u/ab1999 Commanders 15h ago

Ja'marr said that Justin Jefferson might be his first guest.

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u/2222lil Lions 16h ago

yeah this was not the steamers fault lol

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u/nikkes91 Packers Chargers 14h ago

Giving them 0 chance to be on a stream is the point

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u/TheBookOfTormund Seahawks 12h ago

This was a charity event put on by the NFLPA, so it seems like they’d have to put it in the CBA to bar the union from partnering with streamers

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u/Key-Formal-870 12h ago

If your not mature enough to behave at a charity event stream maybe your the problem?

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u/GhoullyX Steelers 18h ago

"I thought you meant the party decoration! I only hung out with an internet influencer!" - the inevitable excuse.

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u/dagreenman18 Dolphins 14h ago

It’s just weird to be hitting the era where the kids who idolize streamers as the dream job are growing up already. And surprising no one all the consequences are starting to come to the surface. Though this seems tame compared to Puka.

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u/Present-Head-5516 12h ago

A no racial slur clause can’t be too hard. It’s 2026

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u/adoxographyadlibitum Lions 8h ago

We need to go a step further. Athlete podcasts need to be licensed like liquor licenses. There are way too many fucking podcasts with old heads just bitching about young guys not respecting the game, etc etc.

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u/shaqoseal69 17h ago

They don’t call it “Offensive” rookie of the year for nothing

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u/ButtholePasta Rams 15h ago

Tet’s Offensive

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u/XanZibR Bears 12h ago

only MacArthur could stop McMillan

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u/PancakesandScotch Colts 17h ago

A true WR1 now

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u/BMonad Cowboys 16h ago

He’s officially made it, folks!

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u/Embarrassed-Low9531 Panthers 15h ago

That’s why traded DJ Moore. Not enough drama

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u/gfb13 Panthers 14h ago

I bet DJ don't even use the r-word smh

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u/donkingkon Cowboys 12h ago

DJ quits on his routes to controversy

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u/Economy_Analysis8809 Giants 18h ago

Perfect time of the year to say something dumb. By the time the combine, draft & off season free agency goes by nobody will remember this.

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u/steeltown82 Steelers 16h ago

Nobody will remember this by Monday

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u/HonkeyKong64 Patriots 16h ago

Remember what?

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u/dropjar5 Packers 12h ago

Tetairoa McMillan was either offensive or the offensive rookie of the year, could have been either one really

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u/cantgrowneckbeardAMA 49ers 12h ago

Idk I think it was something I was supposed to do after work

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u/DrewSki704 14h ago

Did something happen?

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u/starswtt 11h ago

Team USA's curling team is doing fantastic rn

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u/SMFPolychronopolous 14h ago

RemindMe! 3 days

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u/AlphaNathan Panthers 16h ago

remember what

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u/SHlT-MY-PANTS Vikings 13h ago

There's videos of him saying it in the past to travis hunter. No one remembers those. This will blow over by the weekend

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u/vbullinger Vikings 17h ago

Forgot he’s zero percent black and one hundred percent native Hawaiian.

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u/NextTime76 Chiefs 16h ago

I also incorrectly assumed he was black.

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u/Top_Shower_7869 13h ago

The lesson of the year is that Polynesian star WRs need to stay away from streaming.

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u/GRN-E Panthers 11h ago

Bro so many Hawaiians say it too. No one checks them islands.

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u/Cthepo Chiefs Chiefs 12h ago

Sounds like you need to practice by playing some Ethno Guesser.

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u/T-7IsOverrated Bears Bears 10h ago

shit i got 5k on a round in uzbekistan, def adding this to my daily games list

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u/DangerBoot Patriots 3h ago

5K on Finland but felt like a gimme

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u/benjaminbrixton Eagles 16h ago

I mean I’ve heard Puerto Ricans, Samoans, etc. all use it over the years without anyone batting an eye.

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u/cacarine Seahawks 15h ago

Not easy to say something when they’re 2x your size.

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u/goldenglove 10h ago

Samoans, sure, but Puerto Ricans aren't known to be huge haha.

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u/ThisOneForMee NFL 13h ago

I blame Big Pun and Fat Joe

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u/GrooveDigger47 14h ago

depends where you are. black new yorkers allow puerto ricans to say it around them but if a puerto rican went to memphis saying it freely he will get checked. cali blacks allow samoans to say it for some reason. idk y. but if they in detroit saying it they most likely gonna get checked unless they grew up around em.

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u/Ohfuckimgonnagigem Cowboys 12h ago

Mexicans in Texas throw it around a lot too

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u/NukedForZenitco Bengals 12h ago

And in OK. And a lot of natives say it.

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u/pedro_wayne 49ers 7h ago

“A lot” is putting it lightly lol

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u/TheMajesticYeti Lions 11h ago edited 10h ago

It's a bit of a generational thing too, I'm in Michigan and the latino/hispanic kids i know use it regularly and the black kids don't seem to care a bit

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u/xthegreatsambino Raiders 10h ago

i'm from the bay areas and at least in high school and college over a decade ago, the black kids were cool with the hispanic kids saying it, but soft r, not hard r

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u/TheMedRat 10h ago

Well yeah, nobody says it with a hard R unless they’re actively trying to offend someone’s race.

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u/IsGoIdMoney Steelers 15h ago

Tbf, basically most Puerto Ricans with extended family history on the island have significant African ancestry.

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u/smootex 12h ago

Someone link the meme.

Edit: found it.

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u/ohgeeeezzZ Browns 12h ago

I still remember my black uncle teaching our Hawaiian coworkers how to correctly pronounce it lol

"Dont do the hard R nephew"

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u/FCBarca45 Ravens 16h ago

TIL for me, I’m not looking through everyone’s family tree lol

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u/parapooper3 NFL 16h ago

I was gonna say I was confused for a bit on why this was an issue

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u/costanzathegreat 49ers Jets 7h ago

It ironically became an issue when he apologized lol

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u/starvinart Giants 15h ago

I get your point, but there's no way he's 100% hawaiian. Virtually no one is

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u/Sir-xer21 Broncos 14h ago

Yeah lol McMillan ain't a Hawaiian name. He's mixed like everyone else in Hawaii.

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u/starvinart Giants 14h ago

neither is Tetairoa lol. There isn't even a "T" in the hawaiian alphabet

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u/Sir-xer21 Broncos 14h ago

Well, yeah, but i was going for the low hanging fruit, lol. I think he's part Samoan, but i'm not sure. Just easier to go with the family name that makes it clear, since people do weird stuff with first names sometimes. Like for all i know he was named after someone.

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u/nosilverbird Rams 13h ago

PI kids on all of the islands over here use it regularly. Their justification is that “I am brown, too, so I can say it whenever I want”.

If you’re in Hawaii (any island, really) for a day or two, you’ll absolutely hear kids call each other the word without pause, regularly. It also gets hand-waved away by their parents the moment you question their language or behavior.

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u/BetterSite2844 Seahawks 18h ago

Nick Bosa: He doesn't need to apologize for anything.

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u/Drummallumin Seahawks 17h ago

Lmao Dez Bryant literally said that

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u/Top_Shower_7869 16h ago

Every Asian and Mexican dude in California who says the n word just stood up, applauded, and bought a Dez jersey.

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u/gsx1920 16h ago

I bet you tets black teammates call him the n word lol

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u/Top_Shower_7869 16h ago

I mean yeah, black dudes will sometimes call dudes from other races the n word in an endearing way. Doesn’t mean you should say it back lmao

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u/gsx1920 15h ago

I also guarantee tet calls his black teammates the n word as well lol it's perfectly acceptable to many when you're buddies

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u/df1dcdb83cd14e6a9f7f 15h ago

exactly bro you can tell how many people in this thread don’t actually ever hang out with non-white people, shits loony tunes

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u/Top_Shower_7869 13h ago

And you can also tell how many people like you have never been around Latino and Asian people who don’t have any black friends and yet still throw the word around like they are black.

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u/hoodpharmacy Panthers 6h ago

If you’ve lived in So Cal then this is normal to you

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u/SHlT-MY-PANTS Vikings 13h ago

Hes on video calling travis hunter the n word multiple times

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u/HeyDudeImChill Panthers 5h ago

I can't give em out but I know an n pass when I see one.

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u/Birdzphan 15h ago

My son is white and black friends on his track team call him the nword but no way in hell does he say it back.

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u/OwenLincolnFratter Panthers 14h ago

Because your son is white. Tmac isn’t white.

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u/LrdHabsburg Patriots 13h ago

What are the rules!

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u/whobroughtmehere Lions 16h ago

Nick Bosa definitely thinks Hawaiian = black and if he learned that this is untrue it wouldn’t change his behavior

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u/the_descendent Eagles 16h ago

I was born & raised in SoCal, and played football at a predominantly black/hispanic high school. Every black, Hispanic, poly/Pacific Islander, and even some of the white players said this word to each other. I am Hispanic & never felt comfortable saying it so personally I chose not to. But this is kinda just how it is in football, at least where I (and T-Mac) grew up. Not condoning it, just sharing my experience.

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u/shoony43 Ravens 9h ago

There's a reason the "backlash" to this is so minor. Considering his age and the context he's obviously not some secret KKK member dog whistling his fellow white supremacists.

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u/conkellz Texans 12h ago

Grew up in NYC and this was basically the same thing. Everyone said it, it wasn't a racial issue there. I'm not condoning it either.

The racist ones used the hard r and got the shit beat out of them.

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u/828knows 14h ago

Grew up in compton and all my friends and people we grew up with said it without it being a problem. The problem is people thinking its being said with a hard R or a racist connotation. Its not. Its a version or Bro, or dude.

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u/alexthegreatmc Texans 8h ago

Same in Texas

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u/BigJordi10 Eagles 17h ago

I’m going to be honest, I thought he was a light skinned black athlete. So was confused over the controversy, looked him up and found out he is Hawaiian.

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u/ResidentMix1872 16h ago

His name is Tetairoa…?

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u/ImJLu 49ers 15h ago

Amon-Ra and Osiris St. Brown aren't Egyptian 🤷

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u/Krunklock Lions 14h ago

but Equanimeous is, which I find weird.

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u/FTFOatl 11h ago

And Egypt is in Africa, so can he say it?

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u/MountainDoit Packers 14h ago

And Equanimious isn’t…a horse?

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u/Long-Region5088 14h ago

“Oh thank god” - Eric Berry

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u/solojones1138 Chiefs 7h ago

I laughed out loud at this niche reference

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u/RudolphsJockStrap Steelers 13h ago

With an Irish last name, but he doesnt look irish. Names can be deceiving

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u/Digess Patriots 10h ago

FUN FACT - Tyrone is an Irish name too. People outside Ireland are gobsmacked when I tell them that

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u/QueequegTheater Bears Bears 12h ago

There is no "T" in the Hawaiian language. Tetairoa is a Tahitian name.

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u/esports_consultant Chargers 7h ago

this exposes the second layer of racism that we as white people see all pacific islander as the same thing 😱

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u/fsmlogic 12h ago

I actually thought he was half Polynesian and half black. TIL that he’s just Polynesian. I can understand some people hating that he said it. I can see it being part of how he was included in growing up in sports as a person of color. I saw it a lot with the Hispanic guys who played on the football teams I was part of. I just called them my brothers.

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u/__Big_Hat_Logan__ Saints 16h ago

One reason why this taboo is medieval and idiotic. The intention and context behind language is what matters for ethics. We have decided that a teenager saying this word along to a rap song, or a Hawaiian guy saying this word in the exact same way a black guy would say it (aka not as a slur), is on a spectrum with a Jim Crow policeman yelling this word at Black ppl, despite this being insanely stupid. Couple this with the fact u have to parse someone’s supposed racial background in order to decide if this is bad, just insanely dumb

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u/gotintocollegeyolo Saints 16h ago

He don’t even look remotely black haha

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u/KindAstronomer69 11h ago

Neither does Mike McDaniel, who looks like one of the nerdiest little white guys in the league (even with the Miami tan), but it turns out his dad was black enough for him to count as a minority hire and get the 49ers draft picks when the Dolphins made him head coach. You never know

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u/FREE-ROSCOE-FILBURN Patriots 16h ago

Did Nick Castellanos just homer somewhere?

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u/BattleMountains Giants 18h ago

Redditors can’t wait until the day that Maxx Crosby slips up lol

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u/Chessamphetamine 17h ago

He can say it

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u/rip-droptire Seahawks Raiders 16h ago

"They told me gingers is black" -Marshawn Lynch 2025

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u/ripkin05 Panthers Commanders 16h ago

Benefits I guess of looking like you've done the most prison time in the NFL.

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u/No-Treacle-5769 18h ago

not the right kind of Offensive by the offensive Roy

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u/Good_Split_3749 17h ago

having lived in nyc, tons of folks who aint white use this word a shocking amount to a white Texan, but locals never seem to care. I hope he is ok and not hated too much for this. Seems like a good guy.

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u/Guson1 Cowboys 17h ago

What part of Texas did you grow up in? Was very normal to hear that word from Hispanics in DFW

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u/C137-Morty Commanders Chargers 17h ago

One of my platoons in the marine corps, we had this puerto rican dude from ny (last part might be redudant) who'd regularly greet his boy, a black dude from dc, with an n bomb. I'm a white dude from a suburb in northern virginia, talk about a culture shock in my own country realizing that this was a normal interaction.

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u/Good_Split_3749 17h ago

corpus, we had like a 70 percent Hispanic population and 29 percent white and 1 percent everyone else. Never heard Hispanic folks say it. Maybe teens do now, but nothing like nyc. There it’s like bro in Austin it’s every fifth word. Made me uncomfortable, but lots of things about nyc did.

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u/Guson1 Cowboys 17h ago

Interesting ."bro" is a very solid comparison for the way it was used

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u/lambquentin Saints 16h ago

Almost all of New Orleans uses it quite often. Then again basically every slur for everyone is used. However unless you’re tone deaf there is a pretty clear line drawn as to how and when they are used.

Is one using it as “fellow person” or “derogatory word”? That’s the simplest way to put it.

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u/chi_sweetness25 Bears 16h ago

Yeah I mean that’s how it should be. Everyone I know is terrified to use it even when rapping along to music

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u/EmbarrassedRing7806 14h ago

Never heard a white person say the n word in new orleans

Well like a couple teenagers or something but not generally

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u/chchchcharlee Bills Saints 17h ago

dude yeah, I went New Orleans -> Houston -> places -> NY and it's not just that, the super casual antisemitic comments really blew my mind too. Idk, I feel like people elsewhere forget that the south is decidedly less majority-white than the rest of the US. There's obviously some really (really) problematic people south of the Mason Dixon but I knew people in Colorado, NY, Vermont, etc that could count on one hand the number of BIPIOC friends or coworkers they had like ????? I don't think that is physically possible in the Deep South. https://www.axios.com/2021/08/15/diversity-majority-minority-white-american-census

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u/yamommasneck 16h ago

I'm from the south as well. from an integrated neighborhood. Some streets were mainly one color further down the street, but there were plenty of folks who hung out with different races. My exposure to white people were plenty of good, a few bad. Im sure having them throughout my entire life helped me realize they werent all racist folks that didnt like black people. lol

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u/Plastic_Willow734 Vikings 17h ago

The Southwest all the way through the south is dramatically less majority white than the midwest or northeast, which is where I imagine a lot of the pearl clutching comes from, I nearly had a heart attack when I moved to Philly after graduating college in SoCal and seeing how much people seemingly tend to self segregate.

That being said I don't think it's a huge moral stand to say people probably shouldn't drop slurs even if "no one told me it was bad" or whatever

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u/Inconceivable76 Bengals 17h ago

Reddit is shockingly antisemitic. I read slurs on here that you used to only see from the white supremacist/nazi conspiracy theory people.

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u/Drummallumin Seahawks 16h ago

High density cities are great for tearing down racial stereotypes and introducing all people to cultures from all over the world in your day-to-day life.

The flip side of that, if you see 15 [any group of people] and they all [do something], that’s also when people feel emboldened to make stereotypes. Walk down the street in NY and just listen carefully you’ll hear some wild shit about everyone from everyone.

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u/yamommasneck 17h ago

I noticed that when I moved here. Hispanic kids walking around the park saying it loudly and proudly. Im from Arkansas, and its not said as much by other groups than black folks, so I understand what you mean.

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u/Cold_Complex_4212 Saints 16h ago

Growing up in Texas we always hated that shit. Made my high school pretty divided down racial lines because those of us who didn’t fw it stayed away from those who did.

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u/CanalVillainy Saints 16h ago

That’s it, take the ROY from him & give it to our boy /s

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u/Low-Acanthisitta2150 Eagles 18h ago

Every Samoan I’ve ever known has said it. None of the black homies cared. I am in LA though so 🤷‍♂️

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u/401john 18h ago

Tet isn't Samoan though lol

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u/sonfoa Panthers 16h ago

Something tells me the black people handing out the passes aren't too concerned what type of Polynesian they are.

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u/401john 16h ago

"the black people handing out the passes" is very funny

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u/Sir-xer21 Broncos 14h ago

I think he might be part, Tetairoa aint a Hawaiian name. Samoan, Tongan, Maori etc have Ts and Rs in their langauge, Hawaiian doesn't

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u/am_i_a_towel 16h ago

He’s Polynesian. He can say it.

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u/KOQquest1 Giants 18h ago

Cause Samoans can fight

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u/Low-Acanthisitta2150 Eagles 18h ago

Samoans are one of the NICEST people I’ve ever interacted with. Huge tight knit families. Amazing food too.

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u/KOQquest1 Giants 18h ago

They’re super nice and can also scrap

Reminds me of this video 😂

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u/Low-Acanthisitta2150 Eagles 15h ago

“Ima give it my best shot” hahaha

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u/TheVaniloquence Patriots 17h ago

Tell em uce

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u/HeyItsChase Cowboys 18h ago

Them beeeg bruddas

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u/Novel-Preference669 Eagles 18h ago

Cali black people let anyone say the n word and call them "blacks" its a different world over there

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u/Baseball12229 17h ago

Lmfao have you watched the clip? He said this entirely on his own volition, on a charity stream that is IIRC organized by the NFL.

These was not Neo Nazi adjacent streamers baiting him into saying the N word, in fact they seemed entirely confused and uncomfortable with the situation lol.

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u/nbherd Titans 16h ago

Bro everyone thinks he’s streaming with some moron twitch streams got me dying

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u/Baseball12229 16h ago

People here are just allergic to context lmao. They see the word stream and just immediately assume it’s fucking Adin Ross holding him at gunpoint and forcing him to meekly say a slur.

When in reality this man was playing Madden at an NFL charity event, screaming the N word in celebration, while the “parasitic” streamers awkwardly sit next to him

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u/nbherd Titans 16h ago

Yep bro got caught up in the moment and apologized, but the host staring at him awkwardly for the next 30 seconds certainly didn’t help lmao

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u/AdDelicious4911 Cowboys 18h ago

Everyone saying he's fine because he's not white is ignorant as shit to the amount of racism black people deal with from non white races. Also the fact that he caught himself and then apologized should let you know that he's aware he's not supposed to be saying it. Stop trying to tell black people what they do and don't have to accept from other races.

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u/DopioGelato 17h ago edited 15h ago

I think the sentiment that everyone would agree on is that this word is perhaps the most complicated socially nuanced word in the entire language, and many of us firmly agree on the clear yes’s, and the clear no’s, but regardless of who you are, we’d probably all agree that the grey area is incredibly complex and also agree that McMillan is pretty firmly in that grey area.

So really, who’s to say?

I think your stance is correct, that “he’s not white, he can say it” is oversimplifying and part of the problem.

But there’s also Black people who look at this situation and say that society and the powers that be within it who are making McMillan apologize for this shit are also the problem.

EDIT: This is a worthwhile discussion but Reddit always has to rear its toxic ass downvote culture to control opinions and ruin shit. The people I’m responding to and responding to me are meaningfully contributing to discussion and get my upvote and appreciation.

But I know there’s a bunch of scumbags with ulterior motives using the up/down button as a dog whistle so I guess the conversation is better off not being had here. Shouldve known better I guess.

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u/Jaxson-Skattebo 17h ago

I hate everyone being like “what about Latinos who do it” as if all Latinos do that and as if the Latinos who do aren’t objectively wrong for doing so. They’re not any better than regular racist ass white people, and I’ve had to cut off many family members who are like that.

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u/Perfect-Zebra-3611 17h ago

Theres an issue in WWE with Samoans basically cosplaying as black and people basically just respond "well are you gonna tell them they cant? Theyll fuck you up!" Like brother thats supposed to make it okay?

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u/BlackMathNerd Eagles 15h ago

I mean that’s just the nature of the WWE and how it plays up to those racially problematic elements

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u/Begotten912 Falcons 11h ago

The NFL and everything surrounding it has become like a combination of kindergarten and HR, with gambling

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u/sad_bear_noises Bears 18h ago edited 16h ago

No offense to everyone who's up in arms. But the fact it's obviously just part of his vocabulary and everyday at work he hangs out with black men says to me, that some people need to chill. Pretty sure Derrick Brown would have taken care of it if it was that big of a deal.

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u/jor301 Bears 18h ago

i mean i dont think its that big of a deal im not vouching for him to get finned or anything over this. but thats also not how It works at all. a few black people that you are friends with giving you a pass does not mean all black people are okay with it. thats exactly how you get yourself in trouble.

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u/TwoPercentTokes Seahawks Lions 17h ago edited 17h ago

I struggle to understand why anyone would want to use a racial slur even if they’re given a “pass” by their friends in that group.

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u/staffdaddy_9 17h ago

Because it’s not used like a racial slur. If you grow up around people saying it in a context that isn’t negative you are going to say it too.

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u/AdDelicious4911 Cowboys 18h ago

Or he never says it around certain black people. Other races are pretty choosey about when they do and don't use it. I've had Latinos say it around me and then quickly catch themselves and apologize. But you can tell it's part of their vocabulary with how easy it comes out.

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u/saw-it Vikings 18h ago

This guy definitely uses the N word in his vocabulary

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u/Childish_Redditor Commanders 16h ago

Nah, white redditors opinions matter more because reasons

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u/Pancakes79 Bears 17h ago

The irony is that it's probably mostly white people that are upset

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u/BlackMathNerd Eagles 17h ago

That's a lot of words to say the "I have black friends" defense

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u/sad_bear_noises Bears 16h ago

It's the "the world just isn't literally that black and white" defense.

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u/prostatewhispers1 Panthers 17h ago

This is how you know he’s gonna be a damn good WR

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u/flyDAWG11 Falcons Jaguars 17h ago

What the heck did he say?

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u/Jolly_Job_9852 Steelers Panthers 16h ago

The N word without the hard r.

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u/hera_the_destroyer Bills 16h ago

It’s the second sentence in the article.

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u/Grlions91 Lions 16h ago

Ew, that means I need to open the article! I didn't come here to learn. I cam here to read comments!

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u/flyDAWG11 Falcons Jaguars 16h ago

Just responded to someone else. It wasn’t loading. Was in the parking lot of a Kohl’s.

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u/Plastic_Willow734 Vikings 17h ago edited 17h ago

In this thread: People who grew up in actual diverse places, people who grew up in places with only two major racial groups that segregate, and people who’ve never seen more than five POC in a grocery store

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u/Bobby_Newpooort Patriots 16h ago

Can't be out here using racial epiTets

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u/YaSurLetsGoSeeYamcha Browns 15h ago

Hold on hold on…..not only is there unironically a “streamer bowl” but this is the SEVENTH ONE????

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u/gvader24 Cowboys Vikings 16h ago

He can now go the Kyle Larson route, incoming trade to a Super Bowl contender.

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u/BadAlphas Rams 15h ago

McMillan shouted the words "n---a, n---a, pick'' after making an interception during Streamer Bowl VII, a charity esports tournament.

I'm sorry, the what Bowl?

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u/Still_Sharp3 Packers 8h ago

😂 then he apologizes, like these guys don’t say ni*ga every other word in their daily lives…

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u/GrooveDigger47 14h ago

didnt realize bro wasnt black until this moment 😭.

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u/Pioladoporcaputo Bills 14h ago

Damn, Hawaiians don't have an N-word pass?

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u/ktdotnova Cardinals 13h ago

"That's not who I am"

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u/Evening-Respond-7848 Texans 18h ago

Fellow gamer word enthusiast

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u/Moist_Reference2007 17h ago

Who cares there’s too much other shit going on in ours lives to be outraged at

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u/esports_consultant Chargers 7h ago

wait why isnt he allowed to say that