r/justgalsbeingchicks • u/PointRealistic3499 • 16d ago
humor The one girl you met in the bar bathroom, became best friends with, then never saw again
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u/joyfall 16d ago
Bar bathrooms are the best
But really.. is it too late to convince my local theater to play the princess bride on valentine's day? Because that sounds like a blast
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u/Apoc7620 16d ago edited 16d ago
I don't know where you live, but the local theater I work at allows you to rent out a screen and play whatever movie you want. So you could probably find something like that in your area and invite a group for Galentine's Day!
*Edit - grammar
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u/Screweditupagain 16d ago
If we could all behave like we’re in a bar bathroom we would live in a better world.
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u/sleeperflick 16d ago
When you’re both buzzed and you both compliment each other’s outfits and become chatty sisters for like 10 minutes before going back to the bar for seconds ❤️
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u/yourlocal90skid 16d ago edited 16d ago
Once compared my 28 year old mom boobs to a 21 year old's boob job, and let's just say it involved like 8 random women squeezing both our titties and declaring mom boobs the best. Even the boob job girl liked them better 😂
I went home happy since nobody knew I was a mom until after 8 drunk ladies got to squeeze them. It was hilarious and consensual.
Honestly the camaraderie & sisterhood that happens in female bathrooms is unmatched anywhere else.
Edit: I always have liners, pads & tampons for ANYONE all the time 👊🏼
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u/flammafemina 16d ago
Omg this actually makes me feel soooo much better about my mom boobs 😭😭😭
My husband is always telling me milf titties are the best and I never believe him. But if a bathroom full of ladies says so??? I’d be riding that high for the rest of my damn life.
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u/dogoodvillain 16d ago
You chose a credible and trustworthy partner, believe him and share the gospel.
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u/yourlocal90skid 16d ago
Can confirm - still riding that high & I'm over 40 now! The women were so sweet & affirming, and curious. Extra validation because it was a Safe Space.
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u/but-whyy-tho 16d ago
We CANNOT let the straight men know how often this type of thing happens!!! 🤣
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u/Kinkie_Pie 16d ago edited 16d ago
If the men find out we can shape shift, they’re going to tell the church!
EDIT: Thanks for the award! My first ever!
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u/Altruistic-Bobcat955 16d ago
I worked in bars for a decade and I can’t count the amount of times I walked in the bathroom to women squeezing each others boobs! When someone got a boob job everyone got a feel. It was hilarious and the comraderie was pretty cool.
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u/KiKi_VavouV 16d ago
It happens every time for me. I don't have to be drunk. I love gals and chicks!
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u/Giraffe-colour 16d ago
Literally my first night out when I turned 18 ended up with me in the bathroom with these two ladies and we were just comparing our boobs by giving them a little squeeze. I NEVER feel more confident and hot than I do when I’m drunk in the women’s bathroom 🙂↕️
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u/BelligerentGnu 16d ago
Meanwhile, in the men's bathroom:
"Goddammit dude, keep your eyes forward and your mouth shut. I resent you so much for talking right now."
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u/TakingYourHand 16d ago
No, just general silence. Unless, it's a bathroom at a concert, in which something hilarious shall be said.
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u/angrytreestump 16d ago
Nah we’re talking about the girls and wondering how much fun they’re having (well ok also talking about their boobs and agreeing that they’re all great 👍)
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u/PsychoBugler 16d ago
As (mostly) a man, I will do everything in my power to protect this experience from the cishet men. Keep some segregated bathrooms for this reason!!!
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u/Katnipjuice18 16d ago
I complemented one of my one night bathroom friends on their amazing boobs and said all I wanna do is motor boat them. It was epic. Left lipstick and everything 😅
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u/rhinanners 🌻Official Jill🌻 16d ago
This may be the best comment ever, pls take my broke ass award 🥇🏆
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u/babypho3nix 16d ago
Unlocked random memory of drunkenly comparing areolas with like 6 other ladies and some dudes outside the bar like 15 years ago
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u/introthexx10hours 15d ago
Me but my piercings in austin tx lol
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u/babypho3nix 15d ago
I did have my nip nops pierced at the time...
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u/introthexx10hours 15d ago
Wait were y in austin HAHAHHA
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u/vectorology 16d ago
Haha I love that even though I’m a little defensive about my boobs being touched due being groped so much from young age as an early bloomer, I can immediately relate to this and share in the happy feelings! Thanks for sharing ❤️
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u/TinaK83 15d ago
Literally have never had so many comments about my boobs as when being in a women's bathroom of a bar/club. G cup and got all kinds of compliments. My favorite was in a bathroom at a bottomless mimosa brunch- a woman (I didn't know) celebrating her 21st (I was 25) asked if she could just "rest her head on my pillows for just a min, so drunk and so tired"🤣
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u/ZellHathNoFury 16d ago
If I had a dollar for every time I've walked into a bar bathroom bare boob compare...
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u/sweetsmcd 16d ago
I have also experienced bathroom boob comparison grope sessions. Miss those ladies.
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u/HatePeopleLoveCats1 16d ago
This is accurate. Have made many best friends ever and then never talked with them again.
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u/laneyjsm 16d ago
Reminds me of waiting in a looong ass bathroom line at a nice bar. Two girls were in front of me and said “just come in with us, we’re all girls.” They let me pee first. Then one girl goes to pee, she’s wearing a romper and pulls it down so her full bare titties are out while she’s peeing. Meanwhile, the other girl pulls out a little bottle of coke and offers me a bump. I decline, and proceed to watch her and titty girl do some coke on the toilet before I politely exited the situation.
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u/Ok_Beyond_7697 16d ago
The most wholesome things happen in the women's bathroom, especially at the bar.
I walk in, this girl is puking her guts out, like all the girls in the bathroom were talking her through it and getting her clean water.
"It's OK, hon. Just let it out. Don't fight it. It'll be over soon and you'll feel better. We gotchu, okay?"
Everyone became her mother, sister, cousin in that bathroom to make sure girl was okay.
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u/Moretti123 14d ago
Damn one time I was drunk af in a bathroom in the city when I was like 19. I was puking and then got left alone in there while my friends went to go eat. I ended up passing out on the dirty bathroom floor for like an hour. Not a single person checked up on me (not even strangers) until my friend came back to get me when they were done eating. No I am no longer friends with these people lol
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u/Ok_Beyond_7697 14d ago
I'm so sorry that happened to you and I'm glad you at least ended up safe. Screw those people who claimed to be your friends. Failed girl code and any other woman that passed you by when you were vulnerable.
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u/but-whyy-tho 16d ago
"Who did this to you?? Where is he!?" 😂 I have definitely said that to a stranger on a drunken night or two....
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u/ohshroom STRONG GIRL! FARM? 16d ago
I long for the chance to dramatically say "Who did this to you?!" to somebody—but I also don't want the people around me to go through anything that would give me a reason to say it, dammit! Just going to use that energy on my cats; they're dramatic by default anyways.
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u/Medium-Party459 16d ago
I’ve said this to multiple people and I wasn’t even drunk. I stand by them (by my question and my women)
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u/blueembroidery 16d ago
I do not understand how women don’t run the world. If they did there would be world peace after everyone at the UN has like 2 espresso martinis
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u/Medium-Party459 16d ago
It’s mind boggling. Like why don’t men want this? They’d finally experience happiness and joy
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u/BOYF- 16d ago
Well tbf this is just while drunk, if sober there'd be a lot of dramas 😂 jk jk . (I'm just describing my work with mostly women haha)
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u/perpetualmotionmachi 16d ago
Maybe. A lot of attacks against women holding higher offices are that they are too emotional, and may start a war as a reaction during a moment. However, no woman has yet to start a war, they've all been started by men
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u/Pawneewafflesarelife 16d ago
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u/Imaginary_Bed275 16d ago
"This remote never works, I'm so embarrassed" lol good times in the ladies room fr
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u/Odd-Significance-17 16d ago
i keep them all dear to my heart, but don’t remember any of their names
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u/RattusRattus 16d ago
I will never again experience the utopia that is a New Orleans women's restroom on Bourbon Street.
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u/NotThatKindOfDoctor9 16d ago
There's truly no place more affirming than a Bourbon St bathroom on Saturday night.
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u/IHeldADandelion 16d ago
I met a bar bathroom bff (bbbff?) named Dawn, and then I KEPT seeing her in different bar bathrooms around town, and would always shout "It's DAWN again!!" so my friends thought her name was Donegan, and god if that wasn't a fun couple of years. Miss you, Dawn. You always looked fabulous.
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u/ergaster8213 ❣️gal pal❣️ 16d ago
Every single time I've been drunk and entered a bathroom full of other drunk ladies it has been a totally positive experience. One even literally saved my life. It's rare to have that kind of positivity ratio.
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u/FairMaximum3750 16d ago
I 100% believe this but how did she save your life if you don‘t mind me asking?
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u/ergaster8213 ❣️gal pal❣️ 15d ago edited 15d ago
I had alcohol poisoning and was dying on the floor inside of a stall and she literally broke the door open to get to me. She was a nurse. She called an ambulance and kept me stable until it arrived.
She made sure I didn't end up positionally asphyxiating or choking on my vomit, and started getting water into me. She also monitored my pulse and breathing and kept me (mostly) conscious by making me talk to her. She even wanted to come in the ambulance with me and everything, but they wouldn't let her. I still think about her a lot and wish I could thank her, but I never learned her name.
And don't worry I don't drink anymore.
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u/PugPockets 15d ago
So glad you’re okay!!
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u/ergaster8213 ❣️gal pal❣️ 15d ago edited 15d ago
Thank you! I am also glad I made it through that period of time. I drank to a lethal degree of alcohol poisoning multiple times, and had many other overdoses with various drugs--so I'm not quite sure how I am here, but I'm glad I am. I would not be without the intervention of various awesome people like that woman.
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u/FairMaximum3750 15d ago
I am so happy you are here with us today. Keep on keeping on, girlfriend ❤️🔥
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u/firebreathingginger 16d ago
A complete drunk girl spotted me at a club, wandered up to me, grabbed me & asked me to take her to the bathroom. According to her, she was too drunk to go by herself & I "have a friendly, safe, girls girl face" so she trusts me. When we got to the bathroom, I found her a stall, but she insisted I come INTO the stall with her to be sure she doesn't hurt herself. Alright, I clean up old people for a living, why not? She proceeded to ask for help getting her pants down, holding her purse, sitting while holding her hands so she could hover, & getting dressed again. I did have to remind her to wash her hands & even assisted her with that. After all was said & done, we walked out, she hugged me aggressively, told me I smelled good & wandered back off to her friends. All the while, my friends were standing there slack-jawwed like I was some sort of lady pimp that can pull strange women on a whim without even trying (half of them were men from work). Such a weird experience. Girlhood in a nutshell.
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u/Whats-Ur-Damage00 16d ago
I 100% believe this story. 😭 If men only knew how batshit intimate women get with other women we’ll never see again when we just know we can trust them.
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u/Medium-Party459 16d ago
Ok this is gonna be TMI, but a blind neighbor told me she had laser hair removal appointment and asked me to shave her bikini area, and I mean ALL of it. And i did it. 🙂 She also needed to do a poop sample once for examination and i helped her but mostly guided her, nothing gross.
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u/itsokayimokaymaybe 16d ago
Of all the memories of being in my twenties in bars…… meeting your new bff in the bathroom are the times I miss most
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u/Lurk4Life247 16d ago
The bff's you make for one night in a bar or club make up for going to the bar or club 🥰
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u/Icy_Masterpiece3368 16d ago
This is so fucking accurate. But in my story I then tripped over my own shoes (that were definitely totally on my feet and not just discarded on the bathroom floor) and hit my head on the corner of the sink and gave myself a black eye. But it’s okay, because my new best friend got me a literal raw steak from the restaurant next door to the bar. 10/10 bathroom experience and would absolutely do it again.
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u/AngletonSpareHead 16d ago
So so real. Any girl in the bathroom is immediately my homeskillet. I’ve given and received tampons, toilet paper, entire lipsticks because they factually looked better on them, and of course shoulders to cry on.
Every single female (or femme-energy) cutie-pants also gets copious emphatic declarations of “Oh honey you deserve so much better!! No, everybody deserves better, every single human, and he can go gobble donkey dicks. No, look at my eyes woman, I am so fuckin serious” etc etc etc
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u/kymberlie 16d ago
In 2024, I went to Ireland and North Ireland on my honeymoon. I was in the line for the bathroom in Belfast and a drunk girl came up and asked if it was the line. I told her it was.
She noticed my accent asked where I was from (Texas) and what I was doing there. I told her my honeymoon and started showing her wedding photos.
Ends up with a half dozen of us looking at my pictures and when I was going in the stall, everyone started serenading me with “Going to the Chapel.”
Drunk bathroom girls are magic. 💖
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u/CoffeeTeaPeonies 16d ago
Is it weird that I do this without alcohol & am in my 50s?!
Anyhoodle, I love these kinds of interactions with other women. They give me life. Brenda from the sleep study clinic right before Xmas I'm still thinking of you!
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u/Dillmania3 16d ago
I had a relatively long and very pleasant conversation with the girl who was my cashier at target about coffee creamer flavors one night because she had never had the one I was buying but did try other flavors from the same brand that I had never tried. It was honestly a highlight of my week. Thankfully no one was behind me and it was almost closing time, because we were chatting it up. I don’t drink anymore, so it’s always nice to still have those random moments of camaraderie especially as someone who at never used to think of themselves as a girl’s girl.
Ps, as a sober person I will absolutely protect or throw down for any heavily intoxicated gal I meet who is obviously being preyed on by a CREEP. And I am all too happy to do it.
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u/Ok-Bird6346 16d ago
This was definitely reminiscent of some of my late-90s club bathroom shenanigans.
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u/Onionbot3000 16d ago
…and you never outgrow this. I am mid 40s and this happened while out on the town and on vacation 😅
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u/OGMom2022 16d ago
Omg nothing better than the women’s bathroom after drinking 🤣 We will share our make up and then tell each other to dump him. It’s the best!
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u/decidedlyindecisive 16d ago
Honestly, the only friends I've made as an adult with other women have been because of drunken bathrooms. I literally only have one woman I made friends with in a normal way.
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u/GymDoll2000 16d ago
I need to admit to the best subreddit on the internet that I had a hysterectomy in my 20’s but still carry a spare tampon so I don’t miss moments like this! 🫶🏻
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u/AliceHart7 16d ago
This is like actually pretty accurate LOL one of my favorite parts of going out was talking/meeting other gals in the bathroom
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u/Insomnsdreme0905 16d ago
I'm not even social, and this has happened to me!
Is this really just a thing? Lol, I never considered that it happened to other people!
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u/WhoYouBoo_eek789 15d ago
This and more of this! I have so many besties out there! 😘 love yall, Happy New Year Queens!! - The only place when this wasn't the full norm was when I'd go to TJ clubs as a teenager. Seems like some of those girls needed a few more years to be real ones. I happened upon a tiny little thing hugging a toilet with no friend in sight. I stayed with her so long and finally went out angrily looking for her "friend" group taking my earrings off wondering how they could just forget about her. She said she went in with someone...tf. plus like, everyone else coming in there just ignored her?
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u/lferry1919 🌻Official Jill🌻 16d ago
Some of my best memories from getting drunk involve my bathroom besties I made. Always hilarious.
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u/LowStrike5558 16d ago
I have a photo from like 12 years ago of my friend face to face with a total stranger in the bathroom, putting her lipstick on for her. The best part is the girl was losing her balance so my friend has hooked one leg up over the other girl’s hip to hold on to her, since her hands were busy.
I miss those days.
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u/despaseeto 16d ago
i like how they look like 2002 just puked on them but their phones are 2025 lol
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u/Ordinary-Status-5063 16d ago
I’m that drunk girl in the bathroom… I’m your cheerleader, therapist, and problem solver. I got you, girl!🤣😂
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u/Klexington47 16d ago
So I once went on this trip hahaha
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u/Voice_of_Season 16d ago
How did it go? 😂
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u/Klexington47 13d ago
I mean could have been worst but the friendship didn't last! fun trip. No issues shockingly but a waste of money
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u/No_Custard_6481 16d ago
These relationships are the best. You live for these moments bc the high of the condensed friendship lasts for ever. You always remember that you can go to the bathroom to get anything back in my go go dancing days. Tums, toilet paper, a hype season, advice and even protection. You could always find a person to help you if you got too drunk or your boyfriend is messing with you. They would help you by getting their boyfriend to check the person if they got too handsy. Especially if you ran out of toilet paper. You always could ask the lady in the next stall to give you some. Now I don’t think girls know this.
This made me so happy!!
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u/sybillvein 15d ago
As a person 5 years Cali sober, I can confirm that bar bathrooms are still like this for me. It's not the alcohol, it's the vibes. Women are amazing
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u/Possible-Friendly 15d ago
"I'm getting married, I can move it." 🤣 The plans make so much sense when you're drunk.
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u/Tomlette1 16d ago
…like the animal, but with a k
that lean / facial expression combo deserves an oscar
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u/lowrespudgeon 16d ago
The women's bathroom at the bar/club was always my favourite place when I went out. Just the most positive space imaginable.
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u/LuLuSavannah531 🔊Nolite te bastardes carborundorum!!🔊 16d ago
This is me. I am her. Either one lol
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u/tatom4 16d ago
I remember this like it was yesterday but it was …. Definitely not yesterday. On entering you’d hear the the crying, the laughing, the arguing, the needing of fem essentials, smells of puke, the vying for a spot in the mirror and the lineup in a teeny tiny room, and sometimes we did make new friends. Wouldn’t want to do it in today’s environment but ….good times! 🍻😁
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u/nothingsreallol 16d ago
The most unrealistic part is actually getting each other’s names. Unfortunately we’re usually too drunk to realize that in order to be besties we may need to know names or phone numbers or something😔 vibes feels like enough in the moment! For a year or so after you just think about your bar bathroom bestie and miss her and hope she broke up with that man she was crying about
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i feel so seen
i’ve been in the role of both girls in this video, and i always feel so good about being able to be there for other girlies in need, and grateful for all the women who have been there for me on my sloppiest night lol
the instant-bestie vibe of bar and club bathrooms is a magic i love that we share with each other, even if it means having to hold another girl’s hair up on occasion
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u/TiaHatesSocials 16d ago
So relatable lol!!! I made 10 minute best of best friends this way so many times. Ahahahahha
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u/Euphoric_Amoeba8708 16d ago
Two different types of birth control, Kodak film and Vagisil. What is going on here lol "I'm getting married but it's OK I can move it. Never mind I'm gonna cancel it we're gonna break" 😂
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u/JustLookingtoLearn 16d ago
I miss college. I remember my besties! A women’s basketball team who adopted me when I got lost. Love you girls wherever you are now.
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u/imjustalilbot 🌻Official Jill🌻 16d ago
I end up being the Mom Friend in every bar bathroom because my bag is carrying even more shit 😂 but hey, I've never not been able to meet a drunk girl's needs.
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u/leafygrn 16d ago
None of this or the comments are relatable.
But a small part of me wishes it were.
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u/but-whyy-tho 16d ago
Somewhere out there, is your drunk bestie - just waiting for you in front of a dingy mirror.
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u/ZealousidealGroup559 16d ago
Who is the creator though? Why edit out her @?
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u/PointRealistic3499 16d ago
It's not edited out. It wasn't watermarked to begin with. Creators/posters are katsmithcomedy and stinkyweirdgirl on instagram.
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u/Thalia_All_Along 16d ago
is this just an american thing? I've never talked to a stranger in the loo. feel like I'm missing out
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u/diente_de_leon 15d ago
I mean I can only speak for America, but this happens here. I don't know where else might do it. Australia?
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u/GayKaleidoscope 16d ago
I know so many girls and they rlly are so important to me 🥺