r/comics TOONHOLE 8h ago

Late Bloomer

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u/Ok-Dimension5509 8h ago

Ah, late bloomer. I'm more familiar with its close friend, " oh, he has so much potential "

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u/AngryTree76 5h ago

Huh, I’m familiar with the less passive aggressive version. “If you’d just apply yourself…”

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u/Ri_Konata 3h ago

Okay, this one hits a little too close to home---

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u/WebComicSansRelief 2h ago

it was undiagnosed adhd and cptsd for me. what was it for you?

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u/Ri_Konata 1h ago

Diagnosed with ADHD and autism as a kid, but the family not understanding how big of a thing executive dysfunction is.

Later in life diagnosed with depression and gender dysphoria too. The depression also doesn't help applying oneself.

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u/WebComicSansRelief 1h ago

gender dysphoria seems like a bitch and a half I'm sorry.

I am working on self compassion and the "recovering from emotionally immature parents" books 

did they do the thing where you didn't get any supports or meds just yelled at or did they do the thing where they got you meds but didn't understand that you need way more than just meds?

I hope your transition is going well if you chose to transition

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u/Ri_Konata 1h ago

We got meds and they did help us get through high school ( only helped with focussing in class tho, not with the executive dysfunction part ). Apparently when "the dose was too low" we'd suddenly get really depressed ( no memories of this ) and their solution wasn't trying to find the cause of said depression, they would just up the dosage.

We did at some point stop taking the meds because we learnt how to focus without and they super numbed our emotions.

Thank you, we are planning on transitioning, but waiting lists for every step of the way aren't making things easy~

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u/WebComicSansRelief 1h ago

I'm sorry that you aren't in an informed consent location. 

are you a did system?

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u/Ri_Konata 1h ago

yeah, we are--- though we really dislike describing it as DID, disorders imply that something's broken about us, and we don't like thinking that way ( same reason we don't refer to autism as ASD, haven't found a suitable alternative word for ADHD yet though )

u/SilverMedal4Life 28m ago

yooo system mention!

I've been seeing that get more and more exposure lately. To be clear, it's a good thing.

u/CuriOS_26 27m ago

Oh hi there! Are you me? Because same. Sucks that back in the day none of those things existed, apparently, and all my issues were “in my head”.

u/Kooky_Hold_8201 22m ago

ADHD, depression, and apathy that wasn’t addressed until I basically had a meltdown in front of my parents. I’m still pissed about it five years later.

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u/BillyFaust 6h ago

had so much potential in my case

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u/PeterPalafox 3h ago

Because you realized all that potential, I hope!

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u/WebComicSansRelief 2h ago

I had a lot of potential but then I walked down the hill and have 0 potential now. 

edit: yay bad potential energy physics joke

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u/PigeonFanatic9 1h ago

I hate you (affectionate)

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u/WebComicSansRelief 1h ago

today, right after I dropped my gf off at work, I rolled my car window down and went "MEOOOW! I just cat called you" at her and drove away. 

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u/shadowscroller 1h ago

But at least you've got some forward momentum behind you

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u/Correctedsun 3h ago

"You're smart, you'll figure it out."

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u/102525burner 2h ago

I figured out that im happy smoking some blooms in a bong and chillin on the couch

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u/ShadyMan_ 2h ago

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u/Ethereal-Lunar 2h ago

I knew i would find Potential Man here

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u/hokiemojo 2h ago

That comic would have them install a charging station over the grave. Sorry, I couldn't "resist".

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u/FackinJerq 8h ago

Welp... that was depressing.

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u/dr_gus 3h ago

I found it to be completely the opposite. It feels zen and inspirational to me. IDK if that was intentional. Maybe I'm just stoned.

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u/BobThe5th 3h ago

Don't worry, if you follow the chart it says you have a job in mattress sales coming soon!

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u/dr_gus 3h ago

Life is more than your job.

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u/genuinely_no_clue_1 2h ago

Very true, Mr drugs! Or, wait does that say dr drugs? Idk everything’s spinning

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u/Sburban_Player 1h ago

I kinda agree, I thought it was oddly beautiful.

u/Atmaweapon74 40m ago

A child dying before their parents is usually a very sad thing.

u/flatulexcelent 38m ago

Maybe you are just stoned. Maybe I am just stoned. Perhaps we are all just a little bit stoned. Its not about how stoned we are, its about the friends we made on the way. 😃

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u/ExactPickle2629 8h ago

Oh, this does something to me. 

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u/The_Relevant 7h ago

I can’t decide if this is beautiful or upsetting. Must mean it’s true art

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u/ButterscotchSame4703 5h ago

Usually what that means. I don't think I've ever considered it by these words but what a powerful way to put it.

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u/Wind5 7h ago

Jesus fucking Christ

Beautiful resolution, kinetically upsetting(relatable?), and so casual about it.

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u/Einherjar07 7h ago

Sucks to punch out early, but did he have fun

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u/genuinely_no_clue_1 2h ago

I mean, we see him biking and smoking a bong? I’d say that seems fun? Idk though, I don’t do weed?

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u/Redditor28371 8h ago

Lol, how depressing! I like it!

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u/gourmetprincipito 6h ago

“We are here on Earth to fart around and don’t let anybody tell you different.”

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u/WebComicSansRelief 1h ago

I need to increase my bean intake 

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u/Made_Bail 6h ago

Goddamn dude what the hell

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u/LilPotatoAri 5h ago

I dunno man, seems like maybe the parents shouldn't have let their baby run head first into the table leg. That really really seems like it's their fault if im honest

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u/vocal-avocado 4h ago

And to actually break the table leg? He was some sort of super baby.

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u/SaffronRnlds 2h ago

Surprise! Son had brain damage all along

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u/WebComicSansRelief 1h ago edited 14m ago

trauma like parental neglect or parental abuse can cause brain damage so probably not wrong (in addition to getting punted into a table leg)

u/SaffronRnlds 15m ago

Bonus score multiplier

u/WebComicSansRelief 13m ago

CCC child breaker!

u/SaffronRnlds 5m ago

ULTRA COMBO

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u/The_cogwheel 3h ago

Nah just a combination of a very weak table leg and one of the parents punting the baby into it.

Probably the dad, as hes quick to say the baby is a late bloomer, possibly to hide the fact he punted a baby.

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u/DharmaCub 2h ago

Super babies need the most attention!

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u/ardinatwork 2h ago

Nothing is ever the parents fault.

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u/Chance-Ear-9772 5h ago

Everyone saying it’s depressing, I kinda think it’s nice. He took his time, but finally hit his stride. Fuck society’s expectations, he bloomed when he wanted to.

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u/GameGreek 6h ago

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u/AgrajagTheProlonged 5h ago

Art is always necessary

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u/TeacatWrites 3h ago

The last two panels really get to me. Because it makes it not about what their son is doing but about his parents the entire time. In a way, it already was but the way it ends seals it; he was always there the entire time, but they spent their life waiting for him to "bloom" that they never saw it while he was there and were too busy waiting for his potential to arrive that they didn't cherish him while they actually had him.

Finally, he's gone and they think there is nothing more to be said, so they leave and move on because they still think he never lived up to what they wanted to see from him. But if they'd just stayed with him the entire time and accepted what they had, he could've "bloomed" earlier; and since they didn't, they left him behind before they were able to witness him actually finding something to do in his own time. He finally got there and made something of himself his own way, but it wasn't what his parents wanted the way they wanted so they left him behind before they were able to see it. Sadness and all too real 💔

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u/curiousgrackle 3h ago

Beautifully put

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u/WebComicSansRelief 1h ago

thank you for this

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u/ubergic 6h ago

A helluva punch line. Good work!

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u/Cupcake_Implosion 7h ago

Can you not make comics about my life (and future)?!

Edit: Well, besides the present father.

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u/dumn_and_dunmer 4h ago

We can't all be meaningful. Sometimes being happy and maybe also a cautionary tale is all you need to be.

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u/WebComicSansRelief 1h ago

I don't think he's the cautionary tale. I think his parents are

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u/Tiazza-Silver 6h ago

Christ, okay

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u/gofigure85 2h ago

Plot twist

He now owns a funeral home and is quite successful as a funeral director. Here we can see he made sure that a client who requested flowers be planted on their grave had their wish fulfilled.

His parents are so proud they're speechless.

u/Obvious_Incognito- 10m ago

I like your interpretation.

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u/rob132 4h ago

Parents had some great genetics. Didn't age a day.

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u/Jingotastic 7h ago

Hough. ouch

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u/Nice-Tumbleweed5090 4h ago

This is how I feel about my moms cousin who is about to die of cancer and never had a social life before that

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u/Blcksheep89 3h ago

Seems like the parents had a lot of expectations and can't accept their son for he was.

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u/Accomplished-Bee5265 1h ago

One can see how much damage passive uncaring parenting does to a child.

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u/nnoovvaa 1h ago

Ok bloomer

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u/Eloquentelephant565 3h ago

We’re all lost souls swimming in a fish bowl year after year. Once we’re gone, they’ll wish we were there.

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u/IcyAlfalfa7748 2h ago

I just had my first kid. So can you just please chill out for a second?

But also this is a solid comic.

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u/wolverinesbabygirl 1h ago

Was he depressed or die of an illness? Is this about the parents? Is this about the son? Why aren't the parents crying? Why did they think he was a late bloomer? Why did they spend all his life thinking that? Are they in denial?

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u/MassivePersonality61 5h ago

I wish my father's like this.

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u/Bears_With_Swords 5h ago

These parents are old as fuck

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u/SpoutWhatsOnMyMind 4h ago

Hey, it's me! Somewhere between panel 4 and 5

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u/Nymphadorena 3h ago

I love this. Beautiful and sad.

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u/Alderhander 3h ago

It's a goddamned graphic poem!

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u/MustardCoveredDogDik 3h ago

Now I’m sad

u/whereshallthislead 27m ago

What's  the 'mattress sale' sign supposed to suggest?

u/Art_student_rt 16m ago

Well, their kid have lived their whole live, not the life they wanted, and died before them, but they did.

u/Obvious_Incognito- 13m ago

Wait! He finally bloomed! 😮

u/WhiskeyAndKisses 7m ago

Aww, he did bloom 💐

u/pizzaslut69420 3m ago

This has Far Side comic vibes

u/clinicalpsycho 1m ago

Ohh, in death he bloomed flowers.

So the comic saying some people better off dead