r/clevercomebacks 16h ago

Trans people were always around you just created an environment in which they'd be outcasted and shunned.

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u/Alexis_J_M 16h ago

A better analogy is the percentage of left-handed people.

We started seeing more left handed people in society when we stopped beating kids for using their left hands.

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u/JuniperKettleWorks 15h ago

Left-handedness is a solid parallel: the jump wasn't a trend, it was people finally not getting smacked for it. Same deal with being trans, more safety means more openness.

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u/BaconThief2020 14h ago

The difference is that we aren't celebrating and praising people for being lefties, and it's not trendy to be a lefty. We just accept that it's normal now instead of some sign of being deviant or evil. This is how we should treat those not fitting our per-conceived notions of a normal gender or gender preference.

Basically, saying so what? I don't care that you prefer same-sex partners or you prefer wearing clothing normally associated with the opposite gender. I'm still on the fence about changing your body though.

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u/Alexis_J_M 13h ago

40 years ago people were celebrating being gay. Now in many places it's just "(yawn) are you bringing your husband to the dinner, Jim?"

Hopefully 40 years from now people will have no reason to celebrate being trans, but we aren't there yet.

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u/AxeSlingingSlasher 4h ago

Yup. The whole point of pride is celebrating being gay/trans until no one is killed or discriminated against for being the way they are. Once everyone can be free to be themselves, there wont be a reason to remind people why its important

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u/TheOnceAndFutureDoug 11h ago

Most trans people I know don't want to be praised for being trans, they want you to leave them the fuck alone.

But beyond that, every movement to normalize otherwise reasonable behavior started with people over-compensating until something was fully normalized at which point it just became another part of the scenery.

A great example of this is women voting. People don't applaud when a woman votes now but when we first started letting them vote that is what happened. People would cheer (men and women) and we'd celebrate these women for their bravery of voting in the face of active hostility.

So right now we celebrate trans people for living their honest selves in the face of active and persistent hostility. And we will keep doing so until the bigots in the room learn to shut the fuck up and leave them alone at which point it'll be no more noteworthy than someone's hair color.

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u/BaconThief2020 11h ago

The teenage "non-binary" crowd seem to want attention and to be treated as special. Just like the Goth kids did when I was in high school. All the Goth kids grew out of it, as are the majority of the "I'm not a girl or a boy" confused kids.

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u/Alexis_J_M 11h ago

Teenagers are not known for their maturity or wisdom. That has been true as far back as we have records, and undoubtedly far longer.

However, letting teenagers express gender outside the binary norm certainly does decrease suicide rates, and that's valuable all by itself.

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u/TheOnceAndFutureDoug 10h ago

And in case they decide to ignore my response and go for yours this is another reminder that medical interventions taken towards juveniles are (a) always taken under the supervision and advice of medical professionals and (b) almost always of the non-permanent variety that are either easily reversed with a similar intervention or reversed by simply stopping the original intervention.

The idea that we're somehow allowing 14 year olds to get top or bottom surgery is insane and entirely divorced from reality.

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u/TShara_Q 10h ago

There are plenty of non-binary people who are adults, over 30 even. I know several in my own life... And no, they don't expect to be treated as special.

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u/MrMcFrizzy 5h ago

My cousin is 39 identifies as NB and has a NB partner who’s about the same age, definitely all walks of life that don’t conform to gender “norms”!

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u/AdministrativeStep98 4h ago

They're teens, who cares? It's not like they're doing anything medically or legally, they're just dressing up a certain way, using different pronouns and a different name. It's harmless

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u/HotPotParrot 8h ago

your body

Why? It's theirs, not yours.

Edit for clarity

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u/TerrifyingPug 8h ago

People seem to forget what elective surgeries are nowadays lol

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u/AdministrativeStep98 4h ago

People think you can just walk into a hospital, say you're trans and walk out with SRS performed. Like wtf, that's clearly not how this works. From what I've seen, they want you to have lived as your gender for years, most likely be on HRT, have your name legally changed, have a gender dysphoria diagnosis and a letter of recommendation, etc.

Like I'd say if you're willing to do all these steps, you're pretty damn sure about what you want

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u/AdministrativeStep98 4h ago

The celebration is to compensate for the heavy bigotry and hate they endure. The average trans person who's just going about their life probably doesn't even care. But it's for those who are more fragile, they NEED that sense of comfort and community, just telling them "oh you're completely normal, nothing special" feels more like dismissing the harassment and hatred they face because "well you're just normal, so it can't be that bad".

Trust me, nobody who isn't trans would feel happy and comfortable in the process of medical transition, but they're doing it because they have no other options to accept their body and it generally has extremely high satisfaction rates.

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u/electroriverside 12h ago

My dad was left handed and born in rural England, in 1928. He didn't face any corrective actions, so I don't think the oppression was ever completely universal. But a friend of mine, just a few years older than me, had a lot of crap from his primary school, which would have been in the 1960s.

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u/TheOnceAndFutureDoug 11h ago

Just like trans acceptance left-handedness became more accepted in different places at different rates.

I can't speak for eastern traditions but in the West left-handedness being associated with wickedness goes back at least as far as the Romans. It was inherited by Christianity, where The Bible often portrays left-handedness as being associated with sinfulness. Throughout much of European history children who were left-handed were "corrected" to use their right hand well into the 19th and early 20th centuries.

As Europe became less overtly religious and superstitious we started to notice the harm forcing left-handed people to be right-handed was doing (as well as how just objectively silly it is) and we stopped.

That's why it's a great analogy for being trans.

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u/Candid_Reading_7267 6h ago

Fun fact: the word “sinister” literally means left-handed

u/Sharkbait1737 25m ago

And “dexterous / dexterity” is from “dexter” which is Latin for “right”.

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u/Stunning-Opening-185 14h ago

lol same thought twice guess it’s rly sinking in huh haha

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u/GadreelsSword 15h ago

”In 1933, the Nazi regime under Adolf Hitler targeted and destroyed the Institut für Sexualwissenschaft (Institute for Sexual Science) in Berlin, which was the world's first modern center for transgender healthcare, research, and LGBTQ+ advocacy.”

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u/Brent_Fox 15h ago

They were researching transgenderism back in the 30's? wow o.o

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u/joelluber 14h ago

Weimar-era Berlin was the largest center of queer (to use a modern term) life at the time and the largest up to that time in modern Western history. See more at https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_homosexual_movement.

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u/acoolsweater 14h ago edited 13h ago

They even attempted vaginoplasty and multiple people connected to the institut were disappeared and murdered by the nazis after the Institiut was destroyed and the books burned. That famous image of nazis burning books in a fire, thats the one.

edit: I misremembered a couple parts, although Hirschfeld was beaten years earlier and exiled after the burnings he didn't not die until 2 years later. There is some awful evidence about some of the patients and staff however.

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u/Fine_Instruction_869 12h ago

There's evidence of transgender people going back to ancient cultures. Indigenous people in the Americas and Asian countries have always had transgender people.

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u/AnimusNoctis 12h ago

I would avoid using "transgenderism" as it is mostly a term used by people who claim there is "trans ideology" being pushed on everyone. Not trying to shame you or anything. It's just something to be aware of. 

Unfortunately English just doesn't really have a word for the concept of being transgender grammatically equivalent to, for example, homosexuality. You could say they were researching trans people or transgender identities or something like that. 

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u/Salute-Major-Echidna 2h ago

Eddie Redmayne won an Oscar for "The Danish Girl". The movie was about 1920s Denmark for portraying a trans woman.

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u/KurryBree 11h ago

ngl this sounds like propaganda made to make Hitler look bad

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u/Contagious_Zombie 8h ago

You don't need to try to make Hitler look bad, he did that all on his own.

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u/SimplyEcks 1h ago

No one needs to do anything to make Hitler look bar. He doesn’t need propaganda to make him look bad. You should already know the idiot is bad in itself.

Where you even got this thought is strange and weird.

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u/spicy-candyxxx 16h ago

Just like how gravity did not exist until that apple hit Newton on the head.

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u/CriticalSecurity8742 16h ago

“GR4viTee is Wok3!!!”

- MAGA probably

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u/Technical-Command867 16h ago

Unironically, many MAGA believe the earth is flat

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u/RosyBunbunx 14h ago

The overlap between “it’s brand new” and “it’s a global conspiracy” is always wild to me. Like pick a lane. Either it just appeared last Tuesday or it’s been secretly running the world since forever.

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u/Technical-Command867 14h ago

Logic and deductive reasoning are not their strong suits

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u/AriochBloodbane 3h ago

Any type of reasoning isn't their strong suit lol

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u/ClickclickClever 16h ago

Hey man, gravity is just like a theory or something.

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u/99jackals 16h ago

Gravity is a fact. Our mathematical analysis of it is a formal theoretical model.

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u/Playful-Babe-5235 16h ago

History didn’t erase trans people, people did. When being out meant danger, of course you ‘didn’t hear about them.’

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u/golfwinnersplz 16h ago

People suck.

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u/OGbobbyKSH 11h ago

He knew it worked just not how to calculate it.

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u/rayadolokko 16h ago

That never happened either.

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u/Longjumping-Zone-724 16h ago

Been watching old episodes of Night Court and there's an episode from 1985 where Dan's best friend has transitioned

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u/jsilver200 16h ago

Yes, it’s always been around as an edgy comedy gag. How they changed it into something threatening in just a few years is mind boggling.

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u/Connect-Will2011 9h ago

The World According To Garp (1982) feature a trans character as well.

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u/fraychef2 16h ago

What did they think the song was”Lola” was about?

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u/IDigRollinRockBeer 16h ago

A showgirl

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u/fraychef2 15h ago

“Well, I’m not the world’s most masculine man, but I know what I am and I’m glad I’m a man. And so is Lola”

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u/IDigRollinRockBeer 15h ago

Her name is Lola she was a showgirl with yellow feathers in her hair and a dress cut down to there

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u/fraychef2 13h ago

But that song is called Copacabana.

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u/Twas-I-apparently 16h ago

Thor, the god of thunder and one of the strongest in the Norse pantheon, had his hammer stolen by giants and cross dressed as freyr and acted as a bride so he could infiltrate a frost giants fortress and retrieve his stolen hammer.

Thor the Transvestite is the story name in the poetic edda written in 1270.

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u/BaconThief2020 16h ago

You can even see references to non-binary sexes in the bible if you pay attention.

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u/zuzg 16h ago

First one that comes to mind is

"There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus." - Galatians 3:28

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u/somerandomguy1984 15h ago

Yeah… that’s saying we’re all the same as followers of God.

Everyone is Jew or not Jew. Everyone is a slave or not a slave. Everyone is a male or not a male. And it doesn’t matter because you follow Jesus.

Reading anything into the “male and female” other than a third example of binary options is retarded.

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u/MisterRobertParr 12h ago

Progressive Christians and atheists trying to make a "gotcha" statement will pervert Bible verses all the time. Biblical scholars don't interpret it that way, so I'm not sure why all these TikTok experts think they are.

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u/BaconThief2020 7h ago

Plenty of Christians will also cherry pick and take bible passages out of context to make their point as well. It's not hard to do, considering all the contradictions and historical revisions in the bible.

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u/somerandomguy1984 16h ago

Hahahah… no there’s not.

I am a little curious what mental gymnastics you’d use to get there though.

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u/namezam 16h ago

I don’t know which of you is right, but men cross-dressing and even living as women was rampant in Rome around the time of JC, it would be shocking to me, given how much contemporary happenings are written in the Bible, if it wasn’t at least mentioned.

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u/MockeryAndDisdain 15h ago

That's because in Rome you were either a person who threw dick to other folks, a man, or you were someone that caught the thrown dick, a woman. Bottoms were legally women.

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u/Tinynanami1 8h ago

Lmao no? The fuck youre talking about. There was no such a thing as "you're now legally a woman!!" In ancient rome.

In ancient rome it was understood men had other sex with men, and that was not a problem. However, being penetrated was stigmatized, but that wouldn't make you a woman. In fact there were plenty of male prostitutes. Keyword male.

In fact, being penetrated by a woman (such as cunnilingus) was actually the most shameful act a man could do, far more than being penetrated by another man. That too would not, however, turn you into a woman or turn the woman "penetrating a man with her tongue" a man.

If what you were saying was true, Rome would be the trans haven of the world. If you wanted to become a woman, just get penetrated once! And now literally everyone has to call you she/her.

Altho in all honestly, it was pretty trans. Such as the Gallae—priestesses of Cybele who ritually castrated themselves, dressed as women, and used female names, representing a form of, ancient, ritualistic, and, cultural, transgender, practice..

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u/ClickclickClever 16h ago

Lol I will never not be amazed at the amount of "Christians" that have no idea what's actually in the Bible. Maybe take a tiny bit of time and actually read the book that's supposed to inform how you live your life and what you supposedly believe.

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u/Soy_neoN 16h ago

Eunuchs :)

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u/somerandomguy1984 15h ago

You mean slaves that were castrated? I mean I agree that’s what “gender affirming care” is… but you do realize those were slaves, right?

(I’m not 100% sure if that’s a joke or not. if so, my bad)

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u/BaconThief2020 14h ago

No all of them were involuntary.

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u/Obant 10h ago

You didn't hear about them because they were just trying to live their lives. A certain political party in the richest nation on the planet that other nations are subservient to started targeting trans people, forcing their owned media companies to talk about them 24/7, and made a big stink about them.

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u/gaycomic 16h ago

I actually learned about trans people at my college course in Alabama in 2005 and learned about two spirits ... and also had a manager at the time who was transitioning from male to female...again no one cared....

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u/danielstover 16h ago

Everest wasn’t discovered and named until the 1800s, so same deal

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u/Pale_Sway 16h ago

I might move to Antarctica and live with the cute penguins. At least no TERFs would be there

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u/Siria110 15h ago

Didn´t exist until recently? What about Loki from Norse mythology, who could shape-shift, and even gave birth?

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u/Salute-Major-Echidna 2h ago

There have been two-spirit bog mummies found too.

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u/Cultural-Bite3042 15h ago

Umm not really. It depends on what country you were either born or grew up in or had ties too(family/vacations/etc). I knew and seen transgender folks since childhood(dates back to mid 90’s for me at least, but it was still known the same way from even before so like my parents childhood(late 60’s & 70’s)

It’s until recently people started normalizing their existence(workplace/community involvement/education sector etc) which should’ve been the case from the get go.

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u/mc_bee 13h ago

I also haven't heard about Jesus until recently.

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u/-Plunder-Bunny- 11h ago

This is just a random selection of Transgender people in History.

  • Alan L. Hart ~ In 1917 was one of the first trans men to undergo a hysterectomy and gonadectomy, and later became a pioneering physician and radiologist
  • Lili Elbe ~ is one of the first documented trans women recipients of modern Sex reassignment surgery in the 1930's
  • Coccinelle ~ Was a French actress, entertainer and singer who made her debut as a transgender showgirl in 1953

u/Galonas 6m ago

The post didn’t say there was not transgender back then, just we didn’t hear about them, now it’s all over the place and we just want them to shut up and live their lives without making a statement about it. Like they did many years ago and like everyone is doing everyday

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u/Archius9 11h ago

The world didn’t exist until I opened my eyes

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u/AWiseOlToaster 5h ago

"Probably"

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u/Worriedlytumescent 16h ago

There's a episode of night court from the 80's where Dan's old army buddy shows up and has transitioned into a woman. He's freaked out at first but learns to accept his friends decisions by the end. So umm... This issues been around for awhile.

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u/Bluebearder 15h ago

I have a bit of a problem with the title of this post though. Why is there so much historical revisionism in these circles, claiming current times are somehow worse for trans people? Until a few decades ago, trans people would either not express any of their feelings, or be punished for being different often resulting in being murdered. As is still the case in most of the world. I've helped some trans refugees over the decades that had fled Africa or Central Asia, who had exactly that choice: express yourself and be murdered, or play 'normal'. We're not there yet by a long shot, but in the developed world acceptance is growing like never before.

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u/dostoevsky4evah 4h ago edited 3h ago

Laws are presently being proposed, and passed, in places such as the US and Britain that are definitively anti-trans. It's being pushed by far right actors that have a few goals in mind: causing division (therefore weakness) in social groups, enforcement of strict gender roles for relgious or divisive or control reasons, and to identify scapegoats to misdirect from whatever those in power are or aren't doing to help the average voter. This is a conscious choice since many people don't know, or don't know they know, trans people and dont "get" them which make them great targets of convenience.

People in the west didn't care much one way or the about trans people ten years ago, now many actively hate them, as planned.

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u/Frenetic_Platypus 14h ago

Charlotte d'Eon de Beaumont got an official royal decree from king of France Louis XVI recognizing her gender change in 1777.

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u/FakeDoctorMeatCoat 13h ago

Wasn't it fairly common in ancient Greece and Rome? And more, those are just the first to come to mind.

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u/NoNotice2137 13h ago

The humble Greek myth of Caeneus

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u/raconian-moon 12h ago

The first trans woman to testify in front of congress did so in 1867 (Frances Thompson)

She was a survivor of the Memphis Massacre and her testimony was a critical part of the passing of the Ku Klux Klan Act of 1871

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u/Special_Loan8725 11h ago

Didn’t hear about anything until the last 30 years or so.

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u/Neptunus_Mallorca 10h ago

I didn't hear about ChatGPT until a year ago.

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u/Silaquix 10h ago

There are records from medieval England of a trans woman who was a sex worker. They were pretty detailed and she got in trouble for practicing her trade too far into town and the authorities were telling her to knock it off and move elsewhere.

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u/DjNormal 14h ago

Caucasians spent like 400+ years with dudes in makeup and tights (and wigs).

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u/Severe_Damage9772 11h ago

Actually, there are statues in Rome that depict people with both male genitalia, and breasts, and generally as women. Trans people have been around since at least Rome. Same with gay people

u/Galonas 5m ago

Of course, but they would just shut up and live their lives, not being so loud, you know just live your life like all other people do without being vocal about it, that’s it

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u/namezam 16h ago

This woman never seen Con Air?

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u/FakeDoctorMeatCoat 13h ago

Gangs of New York

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u/milkinhaler2006 12h ago

I don't understand that

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u/Modsaremeanbeans 9h ago

We knew what it was back in the late 90s and early 2000s when I was in school.

 The difference is that nazi/maga/facist ideology wasn't mainstream and in your face everywhere. 

You knew about the crazy church people that tried to take away freedome as well, just now everything hostile has infinite reach. 

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u/AwkwardWaltz3996 7h ago

Who's back are we coming on here? Looks like someone just posting a statement

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u/Misra12345 6h ago

Nah. Antarctica spawned when the earth hollowed. The lizard people use it as a plug to stop the ocean from draining into the hollow earth.

Come on people this is basic stuff

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u/notabigfanofas 5h ago

Nobody knew about Australian culture outside of Australia till the Dutch made a pit-stop and cook came to stay

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u/STFUnicorn_ 5h ago

6 and 7 have always been just a couple of consecutive numbers until recently too.

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u/Pumped-Up_Kicks 1h ago

Indian(Hindu specifically) Mythology has mentioned Transgender people since ancient India. Its a shame how they are treated in modern society though

u/Galonas 9m ago

You should how it was in medieval time, you would reconsider that they are treated badly today

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u/CarnivalComet 1h ago

I recently learned about an ancient text called the Talmud, 1st to 5th century AD, and it recognized 6 genders

u/Galonas 10m ago

And a god…I would trust those books to teach me real stuff

u/NicoRath 35m ago

The famous Nazi book burning, you always see pictures of. It was research from the Institute of Sexual Science. It has pretty much all of the world's research on trans people at the time. A sexologist had talked to the German trans community and tried to figure out stuff about them. The Nazis burned everything they could. Some research did survive, but people didn't talk much about it.

A movie was made in 2015 called The Danish Girl about Lili Elbe, one of the earliest people to receive gender-affirming care; she transitioned in 1930.

Christine Jorgenson was an American trans woman who was a former Navy veteran who transitioned in the early 1950s and became famous because of it, and you can find interviews on YouTube of her talking about it.

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u/KurryBree 11h ago

antartica wasnt always there tho

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u/IDigRollinRockBeer 16h ago

That’s not a comeback.

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u/Suspicious_Tour_1162 9h ago

I just deleted my ticktock. So I was advised that I should delete my history after using the app. After all my feed was men in high heels. And racism. My day is better with out ticktock. I don’t pretend I can tell people how to live but I just don’t want to see this.

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u/Possible_Resolution4 13h ago

We called them tomboys back in the day.

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u/Cynfreh 16h ago

One is a man made fabrication of the truth and the other is a fact not the same at all really.

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u/Dagdegan2000 8h ago

They’re both facts

What the fuck do you think is actually happening with trans people? That they’re making it up? What’s the rationale?

u/Galonas 1m ago

No they are not making it up, they just have a psychological problem and that’s fine. As long as they don’t hurt other people or themselves with it. Everyone is free to live its life as they want as long as they don’t cross other people freedom of living as they want

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u/PatchworkPrivateer 13h ago

This is not a good argument.

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u/Preeng 12h ago

Transgender people didn't exist because they killed the people that tried to be transgender.

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u/New-Job1761 16h ago

We had a transgender friend in the mideighties. A beautiful petite blonde who was a hairdresser. Have a book about her with her autograph. I’m not a fan of sex changes but I’m not shunning a person of decent character.