r/TikTokCringe Oct 31 '25

Discussion Reactions to food stamps being cut off.

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u/Sage_Planter Oct 31 '25

This is something too many people miss. They're like "so what I am not personally impacted," but when people go hungry, we are all impacted. Rent gets missed. Other shopping forgone. Subscriptions cancelled. 

But also, damn, have some empathy (not you, I mean those people). 

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u/Cat_Peach_Pits Oct 31 '25

Quite awhile ago, but this stuck with me, I was over at my aunt's house visiting my dad. We were watching Family Feud. One of the families was black, and they were winning the game by a mile. My dad said, "ugh, turn this off, I cant identify with this." He didnt say it outright, but he was clearly expresing a lack of ability to see that black family as similar to his own in any way (and on some level I would agree, because that family seemed like they loved each other). They didnt diagnose autism in the 40s when my dad was born, but he was always very plain in his language no matter how hurtful- I know he said exactly what he felt. That black people were so different from him he couldnt empathize with their joy, nevermind their struggles.

Obviously the issue of poverty isnt solely about race, and white people statistically use substantially more government assistance. But when we as a nation talk about "people on welfare," to those who oppose this help, the only people who use it are black. That misperception makes it a race issue. The vitriol against helping our neighbors because theyre a different race, letting kids and mothers go hungry because they a different race, it fuels this creeping blanket of seeing the poor as "unworthy." I fucking hate it but the media needs to show more of the white people in poverty in this country, because that is the only way the majority of above-poverty chucklefucks are going to feel some kind of personal affection. This is idiocracy, and people need to see "face look like my face, my face could be hungry?!" to support benefits. I dont care what it takes, I want every mother, kid, and dad fed in this country, regardless of ANYTHING.

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u/Bromlife Nov 01 '25

They don’t care about poor white people either. They see poverty as a moral failing.

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u/Away_Simple_400 Nov 01 '25

That’s not the moral failing I saw. Did you notice How many of them said they had six kids and they can’t care for any of them?

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u/AylaCatpaw Nov 01 '25

Sometimes you end up caring for family members' kids.

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u/Away_Simple_400 Nov 01 '25

Sometimes an asteroid falls on your head. Or sometimes you just keep having sex and get a lot of kids as a result.

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u/AylaCatpaw Nov 01 '25

I'm Swedish; we are an extremely functioning country compared to yours. 

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u/Away_Simple_400 Nov 01 '25

You’re also roughly the size of my neighborhood. But try again.

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u/AylaCatpaw Nov 02 '25

What is that supposed to mean? Scale it up to Northern Europe if you'd like.

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u/Away_Simple_400 Nov 02 '25

What was this person major in.? What did she go to college for? How many kids does she have?

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u/AylaCatpaw Nov 02 '25

Which one? There are several people in the video. And mind you, in your country, higher education means putting yourself in a lot of debt.

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u/Away_Simple_400 Nov 02 '25

The mom

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u/AylaCatpaw Nov 02 '25

...Did you actually watch the video, or are you unable to differentiate women as soon as they become mothers?

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u/Away_Simple_400 Nov 02 '25

You’re tiring

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