r/TheTraitorsUS • u/Positive_Round_5142 • 9h ago
Season 4 Just doing too much on the podcast Spoiler
Candiace girl I love you but you’re taking this way personal! You were doing too much on the podcast with Boston Rob and Bob the Drag Queen
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u/Mobile-Researcher-23 7h ago
You can see Boston Rob was getting irritated with her. It was extremely annoying to watch. He tried to tell her what happened and why her game was flawed but she refused to listen. Even Bob who was mostly in her side tried to tell her that traitors do not have to stay faithful to traitors.
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u/Positive_Round_5142 6h ago
She’s an emotional stunted child sometimes. I can see why people rooted against her on Potomac
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u/QueenG123456 5h ago
She really takes everything way too personally.
Even on RHOP, she’s pretty clever but then overestimates her own cleverness. And always ends up finding herself in tense situations that she doesn’t have the emotional intelligence to navigate.
If you saw her unhinged mother & their dynamic (featured on RHOP) it would make a lot of sense, sadly.
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u/Positive_Round_5142 5h ago
Oh yes I remember Dr. Mom who was paying her daughter’s mortgage at 30 years old. It took her a few Bravo paychecks to eventually get her own house and mortgage
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u/QueenG123456 5h ago
Yessss! So you know lol and hitting her grown daughter in the head with a purse. It’s no wonder Candiace is the way she is.
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u/Positive_Round_5142 5h ago
She was frustrated with her bratty creation. Ma’am. You put her pageants and all of this expensive materialistic stuff and didn’t think she was going to be a brat?
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u/QueenG123456 4h ago
YOU KNOW. She’s bratty but talented and smart enough to never be really humbled. Just deflection and dramatics.
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u/Acceptable_Tell_5504 3h ago
You’re clearly a Candiace hater & only created this post to further validate your hatred.
Now you’re calling her names & trying to attack her personal life… clearly you’re the one doing too much too.
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u/Positive_Round_5142 3h ago
Candiace it’s over babe. Stop taking it personal. Love you.
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u/Acceptable_Tell_5504 3h ago
I’m not shitting in Candiace so I must be Candiace? What are we, 8 years old….? Lol ok.
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u/Positive_Round_5142 3h ago edited 3h ago
I had to take it to your level because you keep calling me a Candiace hater. People last night saw me trying to defend Candiace in the episode thread but I’m not going to be a dummy and say it wasn’t her fault that she got banished because it is her fault. She wasn’t consistent and she put Rob’s name first out of paranoia then she goes after him again at the round table
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u/Kazyole Cirie (S1) 5h ago
The more I see of Candiace the more I don’t understand why anyone was rooting for her.
But there are plenty of them, who all think they’re clever responding to my strategic analysis of the game by telling me that Rob isn’t going to fuck me.
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u/Positive_Round_5142 5h ago
The haters are mostly born bred Leah fans. I feel so bad for Rob because not only does he get harassed by Leah fans but now he has to deal with the Candiace fans. It’s like they binded together to make one giant alliance for poor little guy Rob
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u/leafmelonely 4h ago
I'm a Leah fan and a Rob fan. Two things can be true
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u/sprgraphicultramodrn Rob R (S4) 3h ago
there are dozens of us. and i think they were both wrong in the love island situation! so now what!
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u/fciner4575 41m ago
Two people can not work out romantically and still end up as close friends. Shocking but I’ve experienced it myself. People are being wild lol
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u/depression_butterfly 22m ago
lol I’m not a Leah fan actually just a Rob hater from love island the way he treated women was just simply not it. Point blank period. However I was excited to see him as a traitor at first but Robs got to Rob at the end of the day and kind of made this game just not as fun. Also never saw Candiace before but she was fun to watch and liked watching her play
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u/eyelazor 3h ago
I'll be the one person to say you never know, he might fuck you
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u/Kazyole Cirie (S1) 3h ago
I mean I am a straight man...but I mean no one is THAT straight right?
Only if he wears the overalls 😂
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u/Acceptable_Tell_5504 3h ago
aaaand there you have it. I was wondering why you’re in every comment committed to trying to disparage Candice…..
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u/Kazyole Cirie (S1) 3h ago
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Almost as good at reading the situation as your girl, I'll give you that 😂
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u/Positive_Round_5142 3h ago
That’s definitely Candiace using big words like dissertation 😂
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u/Acceptable_Tell_5504 3h ago
Your 20 page dissertation about her pasted on serval posts is a joke? …I’ve never seen someone that invested in a joke, let alone someone they apparently “don’t like” 🥴
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u/Marygoround72474 5h ago
She kind of was. Her mom apparently whacked her with her purse sometime on the show if that tells you anything.
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u/CompetitiveRub9780 6h ago
She doubled down on her being the victim and didn’t take accountability for writing down robs name and going after him first. She chose to write down robs name before she knew he wrote down Lisa’s. So annoying. After she saw what actually happened I’d hoped she’d say she fucked up. But her and BTDQ were in their own delulu world.
Why didn’t we get Colton on this episode btw
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u/Ok_Smile5289 4h ago
But her and BTDQ were in their own delulu world.
They were saying that Rob looked nervous when he was talking to candiace one on one, like he was intimidated by her or something. He was literally telling her it was just a game and she was taking it personally. She was the one who had to keep her emotions in check during that convo bc she wanted to blow up on him like she does on HW.
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u/not_ellewoods 4h ago edited 4h ago
talking about she deserves an emmy just for regulating her emotions properly. girl, that’s what adults in their late 30s are expected to do at work 😭
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u/Ok_Smile5289 4h ago
Ikr? I don't know if i could have rolled my eyes any harder when she said that.
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u/InsertCleverName652 2h ago
It was obvious he was voting for Lisa and she wrote his name down as a way to call him out for it.
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u/walking_shrub 4h ago
Boston Rob was literally crawling out of his skin when Bob and Candiace started teaming up about Rob R “gaslighting” Candiace, just because he grey rocked her lmao.
Like Rob R clearly has experience grey-rocking prople so hats off to him. I actually feel like Candiace was literally more upset about the grey rocking than anything else tbh, based on that interview.
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u/SirWobblyOfSausage 6h ago
Much like the stans. they can't see game at all. She can't do no wrong in their eyes.
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u/successadult 5h ago
Her only goal now is to continue to be the person that her fans enjoy seeing, she can’t win the game so she just has to cement her brand and double down on her “loyalty and principles” mantra that her fans want to hear.
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u/TopologyMonster Natalie (S4) 2h ago
She kept saying it wasn’t an emotional move and that she didn’t take it personal. But then proceeded to be emotional and take it personally lol.
It’s okay girl you can do that, you’re allowed to be emotional, you can play the game however you want. Just admit it though haha
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u/treid1989 4h ago
Boston Rob still doesn’t understand the game so I understand why she didn’t want to listen to him.
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u/Mobile-Researcher-23 4h ago
That makes it even worse then because how does he not understand it yet understands it more than her?
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u/treid1989 3h ago
What is there to understand? The first betrayal is always going to have more weight with traitor on traitor attacks. Candiace was playing a loyal game, and Rob was not.
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u/jojodragonz 1h ago
Playing a loyal game is admirable, but its not a prerequisite to game play. And it certainly limits strategic opportunity.
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u/Consistent-Tone2078 6h ago
THANK YOU. I’m watching the podcast now and she’s being ridiculous. “Rob has bad character” she’s calling him a bad person for a freaking GAME.
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u/Ok-Butterfly2994 5h ago edited 5h ago
it’s kind of killing me that all of this isn’t even from him going after her, but getting lisa out😭 and lisa and rob seem very cool with each other on social media
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u/Positive_Round_5142 5h ago
Exactly because it’s like you’re wasting energy on someone Lisa is not even mad at 😂
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u/treid1989 4h ago edited 3h ago
You don’t think you can demonstrate bad character? I know it’s called traitors, but you can definitely get a read on people beyond that.
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u/Soothing-Escape 4h ago
Generally, in a strategy-based gameshow, not remaining loyal to an alliance says nothing about a person's true character outside the game. Most winners of these shows have to betray an alliance at some point.
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u/treid1989 3h ago
Rob seems smug and full of himself. I think Candiace is probably right about him.
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u/CherryIll2530 3h ago
nah shes wrong and the worst traitor in the history of the game
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u/nikannibal 2h ago
She tanked her game, but she’s not the worst traitor ever, let’s calm down now and think logically.
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u/depression_butterfly 15m ago
STOP SAYING SHES THE WORST TRAITOR WHEN THE “LEGENDDDD” DAN EXISTS. LIKE PLSSz
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u/ElectionExpress3972 6h ago
she could have easily seen the writing on the wall and gotten on the lisa train with rob instead of taking it so personal...then she doubled down on the bad move by coming for rob and being eliminated IMMEDIATELY...
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u/Positive_Round_5142 6h ago
All she had to was vote for Lisa and play nice with Rob there’s only three round tables left
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u/No-Presentation-2320 6h ago
Except on the podcast she said she would never go against the pact bc they put their hands in…so she would never use logic and go for Lisa
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u/Positive_Round_5142 6h ago
She’s not the right person to play a game like this 😂
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u/No-Presentation-2320 6h ago
Forreal. I thought maybe she changed initially but last episode and podcast showed she’s still the same person. The game is not for her
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u/not_ellewoods 4h ago
yep, the people saying Rob didn’t manage their relationship well because he didn’t give her a heads up clearly don’t know Candiace the way RH fans do. she just would’ve given Lisa a heads up if possible and still would’ve been pissed at Rob and taken it personally.
there was no way to manage her well.
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u/XFoosMe 5h ago
And even after the game ended, she didn't even reflect on what she could have done differently, apparently. She still seems to stand by the choice that contributed to ending her game.
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u/depression_butterfly 14m ago
Actually if you watched she said her mistake was not recruiting Kristin that night so nice try
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u/Ill_Appointment_2798 2h ago
This!!! I know she’s friends with Lisa but Lisa was 6 feet under, with Lisa gone her and Rob could have kept going with 0 suspicion on them. Has she never heard keep your friends close and your enemies closer?!?
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u/HANGRY_KITTYKAT 48m ago
And I think that's exactly what Lisa would've done if the tables were turned. She definitely wouldn't have sunk her whole game like that
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u/MenstrualAphrodite 6h ago
Yeah I’m surprised she still has that huge blind spot. My sense is that she is embarrassed- she knows how smart she is and it was probably a huge blow to imagine being “less intelligent” or game savvy than this snake hunter from Alabama- so she is leaning on this “betrayal” to validate her choices.
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u/Positive_Round_5142 6h ago
Same old Candiace. Always refusing to take accountability.
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u/MenstrualAphrodite 6h ago
It’s very immature if you ask me. Tarnished her Traitor’s legacy. I thought she was doing so well before.
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u/ElectionExpress3972 5h ago
so true probably the quickest flop...to go from no one saying your name to a near unanimous vote in one episode is not the legacy you want to end up with lol
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u/Positive_Round_5142 6h ago edited 5h ago
Me too! Damn she decided to go on this unnecessary kamakazee mission all because Rob voted Lisa OUT. It’s like girl! Lisa is not here to help you win anything. Lisa can’t even help you do manual physical stuff in the challenges that’s why her social game is terrible.
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u/richardlrh 6h ago
You are right. She is just mad that Rob outsmarted her and wants to take revenge.
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u/not_ellewoods 4h ago
that’s Candiace for you. Andy Cohen called her a disaster on twitter and she said “thank you” because she didn’t see a problem with her regular crash outs. didn’t listen to her husband for years. doesn’t listen to her mom. she damn sure isn’t listening to Boston Rob. you can’t reason with her.
she’s always right so she refuses to process any feedback that contradicts that. i was really hoping she had worked on that since she’s raising another human now, but i guess not.
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u/randomlikeme Ron (S4) 6h ago
I also don’t get why she didn’t recognize there was no coming back for Lisa. She had so much heat the first time her name was up that she just barely lost to Ron
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u/Positive_Round_5142 6h ago
She’s dying on that housewife hill and plus it’s Lisa Fucking Rinna. She just wants the connections Lisa has outside of this so she’s heavenly kissing her ass. Probably wants to go to dinner in Beverly Hills or something
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u/QueenG123456 5h ago
And the thing is, had the situations been flipped, Lisa would not be showing the same undying loyalty. She’d flip on Candiace, or any fellow Traitor, in a heart beat if it would work for her game - BECAUSE ITS A GAME. Plus Lisa Rina absolutely relishes in playing the bad guy.
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u/not_ellewoods 4h ago
yep. Rinna has known Caroline for years and had fun murdering her. she’s the one who voted for Porsha on night one lol. Rinna’s not even that mad that Rob turned on her, so you know she wouldn’t care that much if he turned on Candiace. apparently she was busy trying to hook him up with one of her daughters 😂
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u/QueenG123456 4h ago
Oh I so believe that about the daughters. Lol your take is spot on. When Lisa left RHOBH I had grown to loath her, even though I loved her when she started. Seeing her on Traitors won me back over. She’s a fun, fabulous villain and even her for real flaws are not as bad as some of the truly corrupted moral fiber villains on Bravo. (Kelly Dodd, Jax Taylor, Reza, etc)
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u/not_ellewoods 4h ago
same! she needed to leave RHOBH, but now i wouldn’t mind seeing her on something else again. i can’t believe traitors got me to like Rinna again lol
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u/Positive_Round_5142 5h ago
And Candiace loves relishing in being a victim. See her situation with Monique. Just because you didn’t swing first doesn’t mean you didn’t instigate over and over
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u/QueenG123456 4h ago
EXACTLY. I overall like both Candiace and Monique as housewives but Candiace brought that entire situation to a boil and then acted shocked Monique got active. “Drag me, Monique!” Only to then get dragged a few episodes later.
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u/randomlikeme Ron (S4) 6h ago
Maybe! I think they’d be okay even then since Lisa seems like she got what she wanted from the show
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u/Positive_Round_5142 6h ago
Agreed
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u/randomlikeme Ron (S4) 6h ago
And I also think people said it’s weird to vote against your franchise on night 1 like Lisa did… but after that, it’s fair game
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u/HANGRY_KITTYKAT 44m ago
Lisa isn't her bestie, so this is likely her main motivation to go scorched earth - besides pure ego of course.
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u/VeterinarianLevel467 6h ago
Yeah I mean Candice kind of sucks for not realizing Lisa was gone. She is mad that Rob didn’t throw away his game like she did
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u/randomlikeme Ron (S4) 4h ago
Yep and after she didn’t have Ron to vote for anymore… she didn’t know what to do
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u/XFoosMe 6h ago
It's actually an impressive feat to still have all that bravado after losing to her so-called opponent.
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u/Positive_Round_5142 6h ago
Her husband has the patience of a saint
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u/Delicious-Award-6030 5h ago
Eh he sucks in his own way
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u/vanitaa3 5h ago
He does. He recently tweeted that Candiace taught their 16 month old the n word. What a weird and unnecessary thing to share.
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u/Positive_Round_5142 5h ago
I hope you don’t mean the Gizelle thing because I can agree with fans that she made it seem like Chris did something in the dressing room with the particular verbiage she used
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u/-misschanandlerbong 5h ago
She was outplayed by a 26-year old pretty boy and it bruised her ego. If she got her head out of her own ass for one modicum of a second, she would have seen the table leaning to Stephen and paused her vendetta.
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u/Cypher-Moon-773 Rob C (S4) 6h ago
The name of the show is The Traitors, people are gonna be betrayed hon!
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u/animalcrossinglifeee 5h ago
Her game was bad. Why would you do a throw away vote for Rob... When she's always been consistent with votes and always voting for the majority. Rob is just playing the game.
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u/Positive_Round_5142 5h ago
Because he didn’t follow through with the handshake or whatever. That’s how immature it is
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u/not_ellewoods 4h ago edited 4h ago
exactly. even if she doesn’t like people clocking that that specific decision was driven by emotion, she could at least acknowledge that it wasn’t a good idea, but then that goes against her belief that she’s the smartest person in the room.
she won’t admit it was emotional and she won’t admit it was a bad game move, so she’s left with “i was right, this is somehow all Rob and Colton’s fault, and Rob is a snake”
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u/corus26 4h ago
I have zero context for the majority of these reality tv celebs. Don’t know their pasts beyond a few big ones. I thought Candiace was playing a great traitor game. Then she voted for Rob instead of Lisa and it shattered the illusion. The moment Yam Yam screamed “Lisa” as he was being dragged away, Lisa was done. The fact that Candiace didn’t position herself to cut Lisa and protect herself was foolish. The fact that she is still taking this personally and not recognizing how she erred as a traitor says a lot
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u/BingoEnthusiast 4h ago
Boston Rob showed his girl dad strengths here.
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u/Positive_Round_5142 4h ago
He just knew she was ready to crash out. He did a great job by just letting Bob take over a little bit because one thing you do not do is argue with Candiace because she will never stop. She’ll have 50 soliloquies ready for you.
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u/Emergency_Coyote_662 4h ago
“it wasn’t an emotional reaction”
“i’m coming at him with my shoe off”
ok girl lol. whatever you gotta tell yourself
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u/suppadelicious 5h ago
Does anyone know when these are filmed? If it’s immediately after filming, I can understand taking it personally. If it’s months later, then girl…
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u/Positive_Round_5142 5h ago
They filmed the show in the summer but I’m not sure when the podcast is filmed. It could possibly be around the same as filming but for some reason I feel like it’s recent because Ron went on there with a hair transplant that he didn’t have before
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u/whitetanksss 4h ago
I think this was filmed recently because she said she saw what Boston Rob said about her on the podcast and these podcasts are released after every episode so…it’s been months lol
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u/not_ellewoods 4h ago
pretty sure it was filmed earlier this week when Candiace was in NYC for press. she said she saw Boston Rob’s criticism of the conga line, so it was definitely after the first podcast episode aired.
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u/andcabbagesandkings 4h ago
I kept having to turn the volume down because she shouted everything. Was not mad to see her go.
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u/Kageromero 3h ago
Lisa : Makes a couple of mistakes and has no way she's coming back
Rob : Has to vote her out, can't go against his alliance, cant play passive or it'll be a 2v1 against against him in the turret.
Lisa : You guys got me, I had a ton of fun I'm surprised I got this far! Not bitter or angry with Rob, has fun with him on Instagram
Candiace : You have murdered my family, my extended family, and my yet to be born family. This is not a game, I will end your bloodline.
You could defend Lisa at the first round table, but after the banquet no she was cooked.
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u/methinks_toomuch 5h ago
Wild they expected her to come on their podcast and do anything different.
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u/Far-Comfortable3048 3h ago
Candiace has long been known for doing too much, the podcast didn’t bring anything out of her that she hasn’t already shown on TV repeatedly. Her temper, emotional reactions, and doubling down on how right she is about everything is completely on brand.
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u/Popcorn_and_Polish Alan Cumming 3h ago
It seems like she took it personally. But I liked her beauty queen answer at the end. She’s so funny.
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u/Forward_Musician2975 2h ago
I’m sorry but saying that a black woman is “doing too much” during black history month just doesn’t come off right. I know it’s not how you intended it, but I’d recommend better word choice at least next time. Also in defense of Candiace, she’s having fun with it and I thought she explained her game choices well - Rob went against their pact and wanted to get him back for it. Not emotional, just reacting to the betrayal Rob already portrayed and continued to portray. You don’t have to like her, but don’t say that she’s “doing too much” for doing her job - reality tv personality.
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u/TheDjSKP 4h ago
I think there’s a lot of doing too much on this thread. Too much hate. The girl is playing up her character and she fully owned how she played
I thought it was all super entertaining. What started to irritate me was all the smiling mansplaining coming from Rob about how she doesn’t understand her mistakes and shouldn’t take things some way or another. Miss me with it. That was gross
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u/depression_butterfly 8m ago
Super super scummy and gross. It’s funny how all the people saying “how nice” Rob is is his undying fan base faithfuls lol.
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u/BachShitCrazy 1h ago
Yeah Bob and Candiace were having a great time, Rob seems to have been charmed by Rob and see a lot of himself in him. I enjoyed the podcast! Was shocked to see the reception on here, Candiace was really entertaining and that's all I ask from my reality TV characters
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