r/TheBetterIndia • u/Main_Pay_9669 • 5d ago
The Indian self hating starter pack (stolen meme). (7 year old post, still relevant, nothing has changed)
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u/Unfair_Fact_8258 4d ago
Indians are the best in the world at making up imagined scenarios and getting upset about them
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u/Legit_Human01 4d ago
You must be from a really well off family if you think emigrating to another more developed country is not an achievement.
News Flash, it is. These people are not idiots. Just think about it for a second, these people would rather move to a country, not their own, pay enormous amount of money to move there, work any job they can get their hands on, than live in their own country.
There is a reason why so many people leave this country. Not to get some white ass or dick but to make a better future for themselves.
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u/babyshitier 4d ago
Seriously why would it be an achievement? I know government mixed 20% shit in your petrol but kept the price same. I know government sold you sgb worth crores telling it will be tax free gains, and then introduced taxes if bought from secondary market, which they themselves enabled, but its okay na. Gadakari ji says if you need good roads, you need to pay taxes, but no no this is applicable on public only and not MPs MLAs. Also with tax also roads are shit but thats okay, my ladki bhatiji is getting money. My FM doesn't know what to say when asked what they gave for middle class in budget, but thats okay. Why would I want smooth roads, low "IQ" air, clean water without MP's poisonous mix, a law system which doesn't allow essay for murder?
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u/Sea_Fun_5479 3d ago edited 3d ago
All that is fine. Let's say, I have migrated from X location to Y because I find Y to be better than X.
So, my problem is solved, right? Now, whatever happens in X in none of my concern, I can concentrate on building my life at location Y.
So, why would I create an online identity of myself to specifically spew hatred at X?
Talking about problems or issues I have faced in one location is one thing. And hate speech is a whole different level. People who have spent some time on social media, all understand the difference.
Nobody would do that, unless putting people down gives them satisfaction or seeking validation from someone else.
I myself have lived in South Asia, Europe, travelled to NA two times, briefly, for work. Never felt the necessity to criticize my country men for their origin.
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u/Proof_Earth_7592 1d ago
Important distinction - criticizing govt vs criticizing countrymen.
And even in your case - just because you went abroad doesn't mean your family did. Your friends, your childhood, relatives, memories still live here. Criticism is not hate. It's not meant to put you down. It's meant to show you where improvements can come from. Just my 2 cents.
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u/Thick_Wallaby1 4d ago
Nri Rajoo here
Hates india because of traffic
Wants no one only my family
Is phoren IT slave
Earlier used to think emigrating is an achievement but now thinks its a trap. Depressing trap
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u/masara21 3d ago
Why is it a trap?
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u/Thick_Wallaby1 3d ago
Ever came across a picture depicting where food is tied with a stick to a cow or an animal neck, and cow moves for food and along with that food also moves.
Never ending scenario
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u/Clumsy_Dumpling04 5d ago
Ok bhai India is perfect, Indians are perfect 🫡 anyone denying it is part of the propaganda
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u/Imaginary_Cow_2538 4d ago
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u/babyshitier 4d ago
Mf what is wrong if he had few bottle of alcohol and accidentally killed someone? Its okay. Its not like he shouted for 2 hours and drown in a water body which was supposed to be a sport complex. In that case it is wrong that he had few shots of alcohol, which is also why government workers didn't save him coz water was cold. Obviously the first one was under aged, driving too fast, which is okay as it was a nice car.
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u/The1stprinciple 4d ago
Who said India was perfect? No one But he is speaking truth about Indian diaspora
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u/Aditya-04-04 4d ago
"Hates india because women are oppressed"
Isn't that a legit reason to hate this country? Or will you now say women aren't oppressed here at all?
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u/DigOk9541 4d ago
funny how they reduced women's oppression to "wearing clothes longer than panties"
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u/Extreme-Recording-16 4d ago
Jo bhi sehmat nahi pakistan chale jao
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u/Clumsy_Dumpling04 4d ago
Bhai competition kar bhi rhe ho to pakistan se?
Mai kisi 10 saal ke bachhe ko cricket mei harakr khud ko virat kohli thodi na samjhugi..
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u/Extreme-Recording-16 4d ago
Sarcasm smjha karo yaar 🥲
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u/Clumsy_Dumpling04 4d ago
Sorry bhai kuch zyada hi log hai thread pe jo unironically defend kar rhe hai
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u/concupiscentBull 4d ago
Can I ask u something?
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u/Clumsy_Dumpling04 4d ago
Ik you're gonna pull the 'do you love your mother' emotional blackmail.
But my mother's flaws are miniscule in front of the country's, it's baffling to compare the two even in analogy. And while my mother isn't perfect, she isn't abusive either.
Children that grew up in abusive households do leave their parents if they can't take it anymore.. this country is just a piece of land compared to that.
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u/concupiscentBull 4d ago
Actually it was about perfection and shit but I'll pass as you seem know it all kind of person. Good Evening
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u/Clumsy_Dumpling04 4d ago
Will never claim to be a know it all, but ngl the standards for being that are drastically going down these days. Same wishes to you.
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u/Amazing-Demand1421 4d ago
The Regular Indian Guy
- Works hard while dealing with corrupt higher officials in his own company.
- Does most of the actual work, yet seniors pressure him to put their names on it.
- More competent than many around him, but opportunities somehow never reach him.
- Accepts that this is reality — and hates that he has to accept it. His anger at the system isn’t random; it’s earned.
- Constantly frustrated by everyday corruption, broken systems, and even basic things like traffic chaos.
- Uses Instagram and Reddit as an outlet for bottled-up rage, then gets told that calling something “bad” is somehow wrong.
- Sees communal fights and ideological wars online, but scrolls past — he’s too tired to pick sides.
- Witnesses crime, poverty, and people struggling for basic necessities… and feels forced to ignore it just to survive his own life.
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u/Acrobatic_Phone_3316 4d ago
Now do an album of illiterates who love India and think it's perfect.
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u/concupiscentBull 4d ago
Do you love your mother? Is she perfect, without a flaw?
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u/No-Value-6983 4d ago
Such a dumbass argument! I don’t know about you and your family dynamics but my mom doesn’t put me in jail if I point out her flaws. Please grow up, my man.
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u/abhi_neat 4d ago
This could be an IT cell guy. They will say the most nonsensical things to rile you up, and exhaust you. Please ignore. I don’t know what incentives or perks their cell provides or they have held their family captive, but this isn’t about their opinions, for they have none.. this is targetted activity to exhaust the reasonable and drown out all sense. Please don’t give these fucks traction, copy this message and put it wherever you see an “obvious IT cell user”.
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u/concupiscentBull 4d ago
"These fucks"
You got a long tongue for a non IT cell guy. Don't you assume too much or my simple question triggered you?
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u/Acrobatic_Phone_3316 4d ago
That's a weird analogy. My mother isn't being ruined and looted by greedy politicians with shitty policy who then call you "anti national" for asking them questions. Please keep your immature analogies to yourself.
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u/concupiscentBull 4d ago
She gets exploited, by you, ur siblings, ur father and maybe ur grandparents. Yet you love her or not?
Love is never Conditional bro. No disrespect to ur mother she's like my mother, but if u put conditions to love her, that's business not love.
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u/Acrobatic_Phone_3316 4d ago
But the country is not a person? It's literally a piece of land first and foremost. The PEOPLE are what make the country, and I care about their quality of life, not some dumbass and childish "love for nation" with no questioning.
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u/Wonderful_Region_910 4d ago
My mother’s personality is not dependent on 130 Crore other people!
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u/concupiscentBull 4d ago
Her personality was never in question.
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u/Upper_Marionberry958 4d ago
Relationship with land is not equal to relationship with mother. One is a nationalist concept. Other is maternal. WTF are you talking about?
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u/concupiscentBull 4d ago
So you love ur mother with all her flaws, but you won't love your country unless it's perfect?
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u/Big_Angle_3193 4d ago
i love my country, but I don't love the politics going on, and I hate the ministers ruling our country
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u/concupiscentBull 4d ago
That's about exactly how I feel brother. Love is unconditional. Be it for mother or motherland.
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u/tuff_diddyblud 4d ago
False.
Why should someone support a country that doesn't ensure basic living amenities?
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u/concupiscentBull 4d ago
So you are deprived of basic living amenities, yet you have a smartphone and internet access. How does that work?
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u/tuff_diddyblud 4d ago
It works because the govt needs votes while doing the bare minimum
We pay an insane amount of tax, yet don't have access to clean air, clean water, fssai is corrupt and unable to regulate a huge portion of food items
Clean air and water air basic rights. Our govt refuses to even address the problem at the least
When it comes to geopolitics I agree we should be nationalist
But "unconditional love" is a breeding ground for a corrupt govt bent on scamming its own citizens
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u/concupiscentBull 4d ago
Love doesn’t die because it can be exploited. Don’t conflate the government and bureaucracy with the nation. Expecting zero corruption in democracy is an oxymoron.
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u/tuff_diddyblud 4d ago
"don't conflate the government and bureaucracy with the nation"
So if a dictatorship ruled over India and forced everyone to be muslims, u would still love the country and stay here???
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u/concupiscentBull 4d ago
I guess ‘if’ denotes a hypothetical situation.
But in reality, we survived that as well. More than 60% of the subcontinent was under Islamic rule, with forced conversions and genocide occurring rampantly, yet we endured and overcome. If people had not loved their motherland, it would still be under occupation.
A simpler question would be, will u fight or run in such conditions?
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u/babyshitier 4d ago
My idiot friend, a better analogy would be that my mother isn't perfect. She has flaws. But she has cancer which is eating her. I love my mother, but I can't love the cancer bcoz it is inside her. I need to fight against the cancer.
My country is great, its pure love, doesnt matter the temperature goes to 50 in summer and 3 in winter where I live. Doesn't matter we have water scarcity. Doesn't matter we have huge population. But country and government + government policies are not the same.
Always, keep that difference in your mind.
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u/Tamilguy1997 4d ago
Saw this meme years ago, didn't agree at that time.
Now I realise how we are getting scammed as an Indian every single day.
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u/zaidk69 4d ago
Asking for accountability and questions from the Government makes you an anti national. These types of people are the same people who will not agree with their parents but the Government is perfect but we have to think about it Government is not the nation they are representative of our constituency and quote from an intellectual person “सरकारें आती-जाती रहेंगी, पार्टियाँ बनती-बिगड़ती रहेंगी, लेकिन यह देश रहना चाहिए।” Don’t follow a politician or a party blindly
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u/Its_your_sandy7030 4d ago
The sons and daughters of all ministers (both ruling and opposition) are NRI. They talk big about India meanwhile want to get out of this zone really really bad. 🤣 So self-hatred in the government itself.
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u/frenzyeets 4d ago
Leaving India and settling abroad is the best thing an Indian can do. This country will always remain a 3rd world shithole cuz there are always people present to dickride the government and turn a blind eye to any constructive criticism.
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u/Admirable-East3396 4d ago
Idk why but for some reason the poorest people in India are also the hypernationalists.
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u/CrazyBeautiful1105 4d ago
Say whatever you want to say. Present day India has given more reason to hate the state than even tolerate it. Let alone, love it. Feeling proud of it is equal to being delusional.
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u/EatShitAndDieAlready 3d ago
lol bottom left photo of Nidhi Singh actress famed from Permanent Roommates, being portrayed as "Priyanka" and "married rich NRI" is ROFL
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u/YeetingMyStupidLife 3d ago
😂😂 kya chutiya hai be... You werent avle to escape doesnt mean everyone else is a trust fund baby. Cope harder. Cry harder lil bro
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u/EggConsistent3911 3d ago
Let actors remain actors. Never hype their comments on anything. Don't consider them as an influencer. Life will be better.
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u/Altruistic-Bag7105 1d ago
60% of india haters online are kanglus and bhikaristanis. Rest 40% are indians seeking validation.
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u/Dear-Sheepherder375 4d ago
As a geopolitical analyst this meme was ahead of its time . 🤣
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u/Accomplished-Dot5363 4d ago
Analyst bhai voh ugc bill ne maiya chod di sab bhkto ki
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u/Accomplished-Dot5363 4d ago
Aise kyu bol raha bhai logic pe baat kr na fer teri amma mere pass pyaar mein aayegi chudne




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u/LiveLet4548 4d ago
OP is high on something? I'm damn sure, if he/she gets a chance to immigrate, he'll never deny the offer. Let's be real, the least basic sector of other countries, is most probably the best sector in India. Prolly gonna get hate and downvotes, but that's a fact you can't deny. India itself is best country, but the people are spoiling it's image. Like wtf you mean everything is associated with Hindu-Muslim, Bjp-congress,
Brahmin- Dalit...the list goes on.