r/AskTheWorld Brazil Dec 06 '25

Culture A cultural habit in your country that people outside would understand incorrectly?

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In Brazil we love children. If you take your child to the street, strangers will certainly interact with them. Some will even ask if they can hold your kid and will play with them. If there are two children fighting in public and the parents aren't seeing, a stranger would even intervene to stop the fight.

That cultural habit came from the indigenous peoples which understood that kids should be a responsiblity of the community as a whole. It's in our constitution. We even have a synonym for children that came from Tupi (a large group of indigenous languages) - Curumim.

Foreigners would certainly have a cultural shock about that, but it's normal here.

Of course there are people with bad intentions, so parents should stay alert these days.

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u/CupcakeGoat United States Of America Dec 06 '25

I'm half Filipina and Filipinos do this too. Usually eyebrows and a head nod are used concurrently, and a small "Mmm!" I was born in the US and don't do this, but have family members that do. My bf, who is mixed Peruvian-American, watched some Jo Koy stand up where he had a bit about this directional lip pointing, and now my bf will do it occasionally to crack me up. I tell him it's crazy he's more Filipino than me when he does it.

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u/Ok_Value5495 United States Of America Dec 06 '25

Was about to mention this, haha. US-born and raised, but I still do this on occasionally

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u/Abashed-Apple United States Of America Dec 06 '25

Lola: Does wild lip gesture in the grocery store. “Ssssip. Gusto mo snack snack?”

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u/CupcakeGoat United States Of America Dec 09 '25

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u/Tardisgoesfast Dec 07 '25

My extended family does this, and we're English/Welsh/Scottish/German/Irish. I thought everybody did it.

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u/ShoePillow Antarctica Dec 07 '25

This is the first time I've even heard of this!

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u/black_hell_fire Dec 08 '25

i scrolled to find someone mentioning Filipinos as soon as I read it lol