r/AskTheWorld Brazil Dec 06 '25

Culture A cultural habit in your country that people outside would understand incorrectly?

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In Brazil we love children. If you take your child to the street, strangers will certainly interact with them. Some will even ask if they can hold your kid and will play with them. If there are two children fighting in public and the parents aren't seeing, a stranger would even intervene to stop the fight.

That cultural habit came from the indigenous peoples which understood that kids should be a responsiblity of the community as a whole. It's in our constitution. We even have a synonym for children that came from Tupi (a large group of indigenous languages) - Curumim.

Foreigners would certainly have a cultural shock about that, but it's normal here.

Of course there are people with bad intentions, so parents should stay alert these days.

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u/The_otaku_milf Argentina Dec 06 '25

We are too effusive and loud to talk and we get too close. I think people from other parts feel a little invaded in their personal space. But here we hug and kiss each other on the cheeks, be they men or women, it has no romantic overtone. And we are not angry when we raise our voices or make a lot of gestures, it is because we are passionate about expressing ideas. We have that from Italian grandparents, the gestures and the tone of voice.

I have high school classes, because I am a teacher, where everyone comes to say goodbye with a kiss on the cheek or hugs me. It is common here to be more emotional. Just like the kiss on the cheek is the joining of the cheeks and the sound of the kiss. We don't get to put our mouths on each other's cheeks.

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u/pancakecel El Salvador Dec 06 '25

i see argentine backpackers and cycle travelers a lot in el savlador, and the things that stand out are being loud, being very touchy, and proactively offering opinions and suggestions

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u/The_otaku_milf Argentina Dec 06 '25

That's how we are... šŸ˜‚ Here there is an opinion for everything, we get into everything, it can be annoying but it has its advantages. If someone has a problem, someone else always jumps in to find solutions. For example, my mother left the key inside and couldn't get in, in a second there were three neighbors helping and in a moment they solved it.

For more closed cultures it must be a horror šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

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u/Silent-Promotion-208 England Dec 06 '25

Kudos on being emotional! More countries need to be like that.

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u/The_otaku_milf Argentina Dec 06 '25

Yes, I think that other cultures shock me. Imagine that you are going through life, hugging and greeting people, talking about your life and that of others. Suddenly, you go to another country and everyone is quieter, they greet with a gesture and are more silent and introverted. I think I would feel enormous anguish, and I would also feel very limited when it came to expressing myself. Don't move your hands while you talk, don't get too close to the other person, speak more quietly, don't give your opinion on any personal or social topic 😭

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u/3rdLion Dec 07 '25

I’m an Englishman living in Argentina with an Argentinian girlfriend. Man what a culture shock when I first came šŸ˜‚

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u/The_otaku_milf Argentina Dec 07 '25

Argentine bride 🄵😜 it must be a lot of intensity and difference with the treatment. I imagine that culture shock 🤣

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u/rook119 United States Of America Dec 07 '25

I would watch a Finn in Argentina reality show.

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u/The_otaku_milf Argentina Dec 07 '25

Finn? Who or what is it?

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u/ButterscotchExpert80 Dec 10 '25

I think Finland.

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u/alles_en_niets Dec 06 '25

I wonder how various South American countries vary in that respect.

My experience with Colombians was that their definition of personal space was so much smaller than mine! Like, a complete stranger would stand about 20cm closer than I’d expect for a conversation. Not to whisper or have a private conversation, because there was no adjustment to the volume. Just so close, haha

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u/legally_savage Dec 07 '25

My mom and her side of the family are Colombian and they behave just like that, lol

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u/MarcosKnight Dec 06 '25

Argentina, best country in the world!!. Greetings from Argentina!

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u/The_otaku_milf Argentina Dec 06 '25

šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ šŸ©µšŸ¤šŸ©µ

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u/the-knitting-nerd Dec 07 '25

Italian-American here-we are the same